I don't really have a security blanket... unless you count Mr. Pointy.

Buffy ,'Lessons'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


brenda m - Apr 02, 2011 4:11:45 pm PDT #18860 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

There are enough bad dog owners out there anywhere that mailcarriers get a total pass on that. I wouldn't second guess their fear.

(We had a german shepherd growing up who would bark like mad at the mailman, and we always felt awful about it. Then one day my mom came home in the afternoon and saw him peering in the window making taunting gestures at the dog. Funny.)


Daisy Jane - Apr 02, 2011 4:12:33 pm PDT #18861 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I'm just wondering how that mailman walks around his hood? My landlady walks her dog with a stick, just in case.


beekaytee - Apr 02, 2011 4:13:54 pm PDT #18862 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Fortunately, my current mail carrier adores Bartleby. He'll even knock on the door to howdy to him on a nice day.

I know he's on a massive time clock, so I'm not sure how he can afford to stop, but I think he likes chatting about the weather and patting the pooch.


Daisy Jane - Apr 02, 2011 4:14:30 pm PDT #18863 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

Oz barks, though he won't bite. Pico gives a yip or two and then stands up, does a dance and sits down wagging her tail when she meets someone new.


beth b - Apr 02, 2011 4:15:50 pm PDT #18864 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

odd, If a dog is out, the mailmen around here do not deliver you mail. period.


Ginger - Apr 02, 2011 4:15:55 pm PDT #18865 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

He drives a mail truck and does everything possible to never leave it. Possibly he's afraid of dogs and lazy.


beekaytee - Apr 02, 2011 4:21:42 pm PDT #18866 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

odd, If a dog is out, the mailmen around here do not deliver you mail. period.

However inconvenient it might be, I endorse this choice.

I remember an episode of the Dog Whisperer, where the neighbors had to do an intervention because the post office crossed their entire block off the delivery roster. Overkill, maybe, but I think it is for the dog owners to manage their dogs, not a civil servant or a delivery person.


Ginger - Apr 02, 2011 4:23:11 pm PDT #18867 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

If a dog is out, the mailmen around here do not deliver you mail. period.

I can understand that if there are actually dogs out.


§ ita § - Apr 02, 2011 4:23:58 pm PDT #18868 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

Have you ever seen me do this David?

You didn't get clinical and give her a named condition, but you were pretty clear about diagnosing her as *not* having a phobia of dogs. People do some really weird shit, you know. And that doesn't make her distress less real, and your followup to tell on her must just have made things worse.

You can't win them all. Some people are just going to be strongly negative about stuff. I don't think it's our place to judge them for it, especially in a situation where it could jeopardise their job.


beekaytee - Apr 02, 2011 4:26:33 pm PDT #18869 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

You can't win them all. Some people are just going to be strongly negative about stuff.

This is absolutely true. And in this case, it was me being strongly negative about someone making a public scene. I'd have been just as bothered if it didn't actually involve me.