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Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Burrell - Mar 31, 2011 12:05:21 pm PDT #18708 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I'm so glad to hear you have a diagnosis and that things are going to be fine, Steph.

I had a benign hyperplasia, but in my case it was on my cervix. I didn't want to say anything when you first were getting biopsied, mostly because I couldn't recall what it was called (only remembered the "benign" part), but also because I didn't want to be all "oh I had my bits biopsied and it was fine" because I didn't want to sound insensitive or like I was minimizing what is understandably a scary experience.


Daisy Jane - Mar 31, 2011 12:06:20 pm PDT #18709 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

That is good news!

WTF is this!?! [link] What IS it? Cause, I don't even...


Volans - Mar 31, 2011 12:26:52 pm PDT #18710 of 30000
move out and draw fire

Yay for treatable and benign. Those are excellent words.

I'm getting blase about the word "biopsy." When they said they needed one from the lump in my breast, I was like "cool." This is probably because I thought I'd already maxed out back in Greece, when they cut a notch out of my labia. Much like you'd notch a cow's ear. With that part of me on a TV screen so all the attendants could get a really close look. As well as random passersby, since it was on a 48" panel TV that faced the open door of the exam room.

That came back benign and treatable also, and I got a funny story out of it. Hopefully yours heals right up!


askye - Mar 31, 2011 1:11:38 pm PDT #18711 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

YAY for benign and treatable!!

I had been putting off getting blood work because I suck at getting up in the mornings and going. But I finally went since I had orders from my shrink and my regular doctor and I realized I'd be moving.

I've heard back from my shrink - I have a Vitamin D deficiency. My levels are about half what they should be so now I have to go get some supplements and take 1000 IUs 2x day.

I haven't had any real joint pain (that was mom's symptoms) so I'm wondering how I'll feel once I start taking it.


Steph L. - Mar 31, 2011 1:20:25 pm PDT #18712 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I didn't want to say anything when you first were getting biopsied, mostly because I couldn't recall what it was called (only remembered the "benign" part), but also because I didn't want to be all "oh I had my bits biopsied and it was fine" because I didn't want to sound insensitive or like I was minimizing what is understandably a scary experience

I probably would have latched on to your experience and convinced myself that it *clearly* meant my own ladyparts ailment was benign as well.

This is probably because I thought I'd already maxed out back in Greece, when they cut a notch out of

Raq, I looked at the biopsied area last night, and I was braced for something like pencil-eraser-sized holes (I couldn't see what the doctor was doing, obviously). It's just 3 spots the size of a needle stick. But I swear to god it felt like she used a hole punch. A SHARP hole punch.


Strix - Mar 31, 2011 1:24:57 pm PDT #18713 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Oh, WINCE, Tep!! But I'm glad it sounds benign.

Hey, the cabana boys worked! After I bitched early this morning, I had a MUCH better day than yesterday! Woo and hoo!


Scrappy - Mar 31, 2011 1:32:15 pm PDT #18714 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Due to being a DES daughter, I had many a biopsy over the years, because it meant I had mutant ladyparts. Nothing really bad--none of the freaky cells ever turned out to be cancer, so I was a lot luckier than many other DES daughters. Well, lucky up until I had stage IV endo and had to have the whole shebang removed.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Mar 31, 2011 1:39:21 pm PDT #18715 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Bit sad tonight because tiny Hamish has gone to the big hamster cage in the sky. I shall miss her.

Also, it will sound unbelievably naive, but a part of me goes "if I'm doing all this, and I know a lot of other people who are doing great work as well, how come this world isn't better place? How come my country seems to hit the bottom of its moral barrel?"

I feel much like this at the moment, Shir, so I can empathise. And, just like Andi and LotR, I'm sure quoting Angel's "if nothing we do matters, then all that matters is what we do" is cliche, but it helps me to think of it. I hope something similar helps you.

Glad that health stuff seems treatable, Steph. Thoughts for quick healing.


smonster - Mar 31, 2011 1:56:34 pm PDT #18716 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Steph, phew. I hope you get some relief very soon.

Erin, I'm glad you had a better day.

t moment of silence for Hamish

I have a date in an hour, about which I am completely unenthused. I ought to go shower.


Shir - Mar 31, 2011 2:00:03 pm PDT #18717 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

{{{{Seska}}}} I'm so sorry. She was so young!