Also, it is my considered opinion that if everyone had the privilege of having such loving grandparents, the world would be a much less ugly place.

Amen.

(Because he damn well knows about my anxiety.)

I have a client with an ex who is making her miserable. Every time it comes up, all I can ask is, "And you expected him to be different?" Not in a snarky way, but in the practical, boy I wish people could be the way I want them to be too. This one? Unlikely.

I'm vacating my office for two hours today so a fellow entrepreneur (who is ubercool) can see a client. I feel all generous and stuff, at the same time I feel totally disorganized.

Going to a coffee shop to write or read requires having stuff together. Which I do not. Ack. How is it that wasting time watching Australian reality shows stings less as a time waster than going out of the house unprepared to accomplish anything?

t no logic--hard to close

a friend of mine put forward the opinion that being introverted was a sin.

Depression used to be a sin, too. Pope Gregory revised the original list of the Cardinal sins, changing sorrow/despair into discouragement, and by Dante's time it had become sloth. I watched a History Channel documentary about it.

Steph, I don't even know how I would handle an email like that. Sometimes it's harder, for me, to know how to respond to people when they're not actually jerks, just well-intentioned but clueless. I understand what you mean, about feeling like now you have the pressure of his expectations to meet. I would feel the same way. ... Also, it seems more like something a guy might say to a girl he was interested in, which is totally inappropriate. Granted, that may not be true in this case; it may only seem that way out of context. But if he *is* awkwardly hitting on you, I revise my "probably not a jerk" opinion of him.

Was s/he a biblical literalist? If so, I would like a cite. I don't know the thing cover to cover, but I'm pretty sure they're riffin' like Jazz with that one.

I'm pretty sure there's nothing in the Bible about any personality characteristics being sins. Actions, yes. Thoughts, even. But aspects of one's personality, I don't think so.

I understand what you mean, about feeling like now you have the pressure of his expectations to meet.

I mean, really? What I *wanted* to reply was "YOUR expectations of ME are not MY problem," but I opted for a more neutral reply.

Also, it seems more like something a guy might say to a girl he was interested in, which is totally inappropriate. Granted, that may not be true in this case; it may only seem that way out of context. But if he *is* awkwardly hitting on you, I revise my "probably not a jerk" opinion of him.

I really, really don't think so. He's married (which of course doesn't preclude hitting on other people), but I also just don't think so. While I get all anxious around people, I'm still good at picking up vibes, and I don't get a hitting-on-me vibe at all.

The more I think about it, I think that Tim's comment that Dude is kind of awkward himself is a big factor here. (He also has a slightly too-intense demeanor that leads me to feel like he's trying to climb inside my skull. However, I feel like a LOT of people are doing that, so I think *that* is less them and more me just needing HUGE boundaries right now.) And I really, really empathize, but it still doesn't oblige me to ignore the boundaries I need right now.

OMG. How can first graders have so much paperwork? Seriously - we take out a garbage bag FULL of worksheets, art projects, and various scarps from Emeline's room at least once a month. Part of it is because she draws so much but at least half the bag today was from rolled up blank sheets of paper that she wanted to deliver as newspapers. Good Lord I hate paper. Nothing drives me more bugfuck than paper everywhere. Sets me right on the edge, ready to fling myself and anyone who comes near me off.

Was s/he a biblical literalist? If so, I would like a cite. I don't know the thing cover to cover, but I'm pretty sure they're riffin' like Jazz with that one.

Yeah, it's about as biblically sound as those who say of psychology, that the Bible is their only textbook for those issues. The response I have given is, if you had a broken leg, would you go to a doctor who'd only had the Bible as a medical textbook?

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT Askye! I'm so happy for you!!!!!

Steph, I wish I could give you advise on the email, it would make me feel awkward too.

THannks Vortex, the only issue is my last day. I wanted it to be the 8th but my boss said it wasn't enough time so I agreed with the 15th (don't want to burn bridges). But they had a temp person in who they are going to contact and see if she wants the position.