I'm a big girl. Just tell me.

Inara ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laga - Mar 26, 2011 6:35:23 am PDT #18445 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I still love Nutella but it tastes very different to me now than it did when I was a kid. It's way too sweet. Are they making a more sugary version just for north amercans?


Strix - Mar 26, 2011 6:58:47 am PDT #18446 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

I think a lot of the undervaluing of fields like education and social services comes from that they are still seen as skills that fall into the traditioally female skills sets of nurturing and communication, and are therefore of less value innately than the "hard" sets of skills seen as more masculine.


Nora Deirdre - Mar 26, 2011 7:43:56 am PDT #18447 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I think a lot of the undervaluing of fields like education and social services comes from that they are still seen as skills that fall into the traditioally female skills sets of nurturing and communication, and are therefore of less value innately than the "hard" sets of skills seen as more masculine.

Yes.


ChiKat - Mar 26, 2011 8:52:41 am PDT #18448 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

It's killing me, to know that in so many countries the public sector workers are paying the price of failed decisions of economy and proprieties.

This. And yet, somehow, it is the teachers' faults for being selfish and greedy and earning those high salaries and terrific pensions. Even the Chicago Tribune was talking about the "high" pensions teachers get. An average of $44K/year compared to the social security average of $3?K/year (don't remember exactly, but it was in the mid- to high-30K range). The paper never mentioned that teachers PAY into their pension. It's not a gift. And teachers don't qualify for social security.

I hope for a good, steady, fulfilling job for you, next year.

Thank you.


Zenkitty - Mar 26, 2011 9:33:31 am PDT #18449 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

And teachers don't qualify for social security.

WHAT?


Steph L. - Mar 26, 2011 9:39:08 am PDT #18450 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

And teachers don't qualify for social security.

I echo that "WHAT?". I totally didn't realize that. Why on earth not? Are there any other professions that don't?


brenda m - Mar 26, 2011 9:45:59 am PDT #18451 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

That's the case for a lot (don't know if it's all) state employees.


Pix - Mar 26, 2011 9:46:27 am PDT #18452 of 30000
The status is NOT quo.

Because public school teachers have state pension funds that they pay into in lieu of social security. Of course many states borrow from this fund and then never pay it back (this is an increasingly big concern for my parents in CT who retired in the early 2000s). The teacher funds tend to be better than SS...if they still exist when you need them.


Hil R. - Mar 26, 2011 9:48:29 am PDT #18453 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I echo that "WHAT?". I totally didn't realize that. Why on earth not? Are there any other professions that don't?

I think it's that anyone who has a public pension plan doesn't get social security. I've heard about this creating problems for people who've worked as teachers for a while and also other jobs for a while, that they're not allowed to get the social security benefits from the other jobs if they're also collecting the pension from the teaching jobs after they retire, but I'm not sure about how all the details work there.


Steph L. - Mar 26, 2011 9:49:52 am PDT #18454 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Because public school teachers have state pension funds that they pay into in lieu of social security.

Oh, that makes sense. It sounded like some shifty fuck-you to teachers (and if the pension funds get emptied by the states and not paid back, then I guess it would be).

I didn't understand that -- I thought everyone employed paid into SS. (Well, you know, in a job that doesn't pay under the table or barter for a pig or something.)

I'm amazed at how I don't know some of the most basic things. Jeez.