Jayne, you'll scare the women.

Zoe ,'Bushwhacked'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


beekaytee - Mar 21, 2011 12:34:54 pm PDT #18094 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Someone just posted a picture I am in from high school. It shows the length my hair was until I turned 26...pretty much to the top of my rump or longer. There were times when I could sit on it. Now, I can't imagine dealing with it.

In '99-01, I grew it out for Locks of Love. That was fun...and significant in terms of a major transition I was going through but once it was gone, I pretty much vowed never again.


Atropa - Mar 21, 2011 12:36:41 pm PDT #18095 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I'm having one of my cyclical bouts of wanting to chop my hair into a sharp A-line bob and backcomb it. (It's not going to happen, I just occasionally think longingly about doing so.)

I am also craving BIG hair. I may break out the AquaNet for the Vampire Ball over the weekend.


Liese S. - Mar 21, 2011 12:40:33 pm PDT #18096 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

My hair is bad transitional right now. It's kinda funny because I feel like I don't really know how to take it out of androgynous. But I suppose until I'm also willing to give up the cargo pants and rock tshirts it's sort of inevitable.


Barb - Mar 21, 2011 12:54:23 pm PDT #18097 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

I found short hair to be far too much effort

This. It was neat to have the angled bob just once to see what it was like, but I'm just a shoulder-length or longer sort of girl. Right now, my hair's at the middle of my back and probably the longest since college, simply because I've been monumentally lazy about finding a stylist since we moved.

I did break out the color last night for the first time in yonks.


Trudy Booth - Mar 21, 2011 12:55:40 pm PDT #18098 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I found short hair a pain in the heat because I couldn't put it in a pony tail.

Like, I'd feel hot, I'd reach up to pull it back, there was no back. Oy.


§ ita § - Mar 21, 2011 1:06:00 pm PDT #18099 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

You guys who say short hair is a pain, etc, are so cute. You could always get short enough that it's cooler and less massy than a ponytail.


Barb - Mar 21, 2011 1:24:57 pm PDT #18100 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

Yeah, but you have to keep cutting it. A lot. THAT'S the pain.


beekaytee - Mar 21, 2011 1:27:50 pm PDT #18101 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

I am in bad transition too. Since the ear chopping of my last haircut...which also featured the butchering of my bangs ala Mia Farrow of old...I have not wanted to think about finding a new hair cutter. THIS is the bother of short hair in my world. I can't cut it myself!


Hil R. - Mar 21, 2011 1:33:07 pm PDT #18102 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

That seems weird. Most girls have longer hair as they get into their teens.

When I was a kid, elementary girls tended to go for the Pretty Pretty Princess long flowing hair, and high school girls were more likely to want something with more shape and style, which would generally be shorter.


Aims - Mar 21, 2011 1:38:03 pm PDT #18103 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

The interwebs are totally crazy. Jilli - you will laff and laff.

So a friend that I (and a number of us) made here through Jilli moved to Michigan a little while back. Today, that friend posted to the wall of a totally different friend that I made through Joe. A woman he and his parents have known for 20+ years. My two friends - who did not know until today that they had a connection through me - met at a Witch's Tea a while back.

HOW HYSTERICAL IS THAT??