They should film that story and show it every Christmas.

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Trudy Booth - Feb 23, 2011 7:32:13 am PST #16023 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Scola is a Cylon. There are many copies.

SO for this.

Part of the reason I'm getting the most expensive version of the NYS Health insurance for poor-ish people (there is another one that's free for children and v. poor adults) is to keep my doctors who have a practice like Hil's.

The only one I lost was my ObGyn (who wasn't in the practice but would speakerphone my Primary, who was ALSO his patient, when there was a question to work out) by my practice is finally getting one of their own so I'm not all that bugged.

It's pretty sweet. And when I need x-rays I walk two blocks, get them, and bring them back.


Steph L. - Feb 23, 2011 7:36:46 am PST #16024 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Sometimes I think I should go back to school and get an advanced degree in neurochemistry/neurobiology (I realize that I am the boss of me and could, therefore, go back to school if I wanted to). Last night Tim's ADD support group had a presentation about ADD/ADHD and addiction/substance abuse. REALLY fascinating. The presenter got into the neurochemical/genetic/physical reasons behind most addictive behaviors, and it just blew my mind. There's a whole lot of dopamine receptor stuff going on (though, of course, it's WAY more complex than I just made it sound).

Apparently clinical studies (as opposed to anecdata) have shown fairly conclusively that people with ADD/ADHD are *vastly* more likely to develop addictions than are people without ADD/ADHD.

The good part, though, is that studies have ALSO shown that when people with ADD/ADHD take meds for their ADD/ADHD, it markedly reduces the risk of developing addictions, and the earlier the meds are started, the better (though, as the presenter said, it's never "too late" to start meds).

Purely selfishly, I am so glad that Tim takes Ritalin. He has a history of pot smoking pre-diagnosis, which he calls an addiction. And I like to see him healthy.

Anyway, the whole brain chemistry/structure/genetic link thing fascinates me, and I would totally love to study it.

t /nerd-o-rama


Trudy Booth - Feb 23, 2011 7:53:31 am PST #16025 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

I saw a friend of mine who I assume has ADD take a hit off a joint and then get quicker at the game we were playing. It was like that episode of WKRP where Dr. Johnny Fever's reaction gets better the more he drinks.

B's focus is an interesting thing. When its on, its ON -- or he's all over the room.


Steph L. - Feb 23, 2011 7:56:39 am PST #16026 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

B's focus is an interesting thing. When its on, its ON -- or he's all over the room.

People with ADD can hyperfocus, which can sometimes be a good thing (::cough::sex::cough::) and sometimes be a bad thing (::cough::sex::cough::).


amych - Feb 23, 2011 8:02:23 am PST #16027 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

People with ADD can hyperfocus

AHAHAHA YES. Also known as "if work was more like a video game I'd be queen of the fucking universe".


DebetEsse - Feb 23, 2011 8:13:50 am PST #16028 of 30000
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Seriously. There must be some practical application for video game skills, mustn't there?

I am sitting in the Box Office. I am hungry, since I did not microwave my lunch before we opened because I was just supposed to be here long enough to get the volunteer started. But apparently, this is the week where (as my boss made vague noises about), she's working Friday instead of Wednesday. I think I may take the phone off the hook for a couple minutes and be not hungry.

I'm torn between "It's already Wednesday?!" and "It's only Wednesday?!"


Beverly - Feb 23, 2011 8:52:49 am PST #16029 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Listening to the addictive/hyperfocus talk and just nodding. Would have been useful to know when I was a child. Or to know more when my kids were small.

I didn't realize it until much later, but my hyperfocus can be very scary and offputting to people who are not me. For me? It's one of the few ways I can actually get anything done.


WindSparrow - Feb 23, 2011 8:59:38 am PST #16030 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Apparently clinical studies (as opposed to anecdata) have shown fairly conclusively that people with ADD/ADHD are *vastly* more likely to develop addictions than are people without ADD/ADHD.

Self-medication. See also, massive use of caffeine.

I saw a friend of mine who I assume has ADD take a hit off a joint and then get quicker at the game we were playing.

Hello, ADD/ADHD paradoxical effect. It can be interesting. Sometimes it can be fun. It's also hilarious when the pharmacist didn't get it, and openly expressed concerns that a stimulant might be too stimulating for me. Although, honestly, it WAS an off-label use.


Jessica - Feb 23, 2011 9:30:58 am PST #16031 of 30000
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Apparently clinical studies (as opposed to anecdata) have shown fairly conclusively that people with ADD/ADHD are *vastly* more likely to develop addictions than are people without ADD/ADHD.

That's fascinating - I'd love to understand more about the neurochemistry behind this. (In my family it's either/or, but it makes total sense that there are related underlying mechanisms.)


sj - Feb 23, 2011 9:36:43 am PST #16032 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Apparently clinical studies (as opposed to anecdata) have shown fairly conclusively that people with ADD/ADHD are *vastly* more likely to develop addictions than are people without ADD/ADHD.

I've also seen studies that relate this to the high percentage of people with ADD in prison.