Or maybe you could just be Buffy, he'll see your amazing heart, and he'll fall in love with you.

Xander ,'Get It Done'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Strix - Feb 12, 2011 9:54:03 am PST #15340 of 30000
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Happy Birthday!! To Pix and Maria!


meara - Feb 12, 2011 9:58:09 am PST #15341 of 30000

I rented a place off craigslist (a sublet) without seeing it, but Plei kindly brought the girl money and got keys for me. One yhing to consider--how quickly do people/places rent? I realized here in Seattle they generally go on craigslist when they're open or not lOng before whereas in DC it was "as soon as the current renters give notice", so a month before. If it wouldn't be lOng could you crash with will for a week til you find a place?


DCJensen - Feb 12, 2011 10:30:03 am PST #15342 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.

If I didn't have cats things would be going a lot easier.

Yeah, but then having cats makes some things in life go a lot easier. It's a balance thing.


NoiseDesign - Feb 12, 2011 10:57:39 am PST #15343 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

Happy birthday wife!

So sorry I am once again gone on the day.


DavidS - Feb 12, 2011 11:12:17 am PST #15344 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Wishing you a happier birthday, Pix.

And a happy birthday to Maria, too.

Don't know how shiny and distracting this is but while we were at Emmett's Krav class today, we played with a sweet young boxer named Ryla. The thing that was nice was that she wanted to play a little rough, but she had such a soft mouth. And it just made me think about how dogs know to temper that instinct when they're play fighting. It's oddly cheering to have that bit of trust between species. "I'm going to stick my hand in your mouth and I know you're not going to bite me."

Then Matilda went upstairs to the Situation Room and stood on an exercise ball and punched the dummy (aka, Bob).


Cass - Feb 12, 2011 11:17:41 am PST #15345 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Does anyone have advice for moving across country? Especially trying to find a place to live before moving.

Look for nearby Trader Joe's.

I actually did a sublet off CList, as well.

Happy Birthday, Pix and Maria!

Atlanta has a big airport. One more flight today.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Feb 12, 2011 11:18:27 am PST #15346 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Happy birthday to Pix and Maria!

I could barely type that, as the wine has apparently gone to my head. (I literally ran out on a post-committee-meeting dinner, following a planning meeting for my LGBT Christian group for the festival that I go to in the summer, because I'd been trailing after them while they changed their mind sixteen times about where to eat, and eventually the final place could only seat us downstairs [i.e. down a couple of flights of stairs], and I went 'You know what? Screw this and screw you all' and went home. Where The Girl got me wine. But it's all fine and I'm really not crazy.) Yes, wine is nice.


Liese S. - Feb 12, 2011 11:24:49 am PST #15347 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Yeah, go make a visit, askye. I know it's easier said than done, but I think you will be happier and less anxious for having seen the state, let alone the places, and you can talk to landlords and whatnot, and then maybe do the rest of the paperwork from back home while you get sorted. Plus, you'd get to see Will.


Cass - Feb 12, 2011 11:25:01 am PST #15348 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

ATL also has Daleks!

I threw our trash away and closed the lild and a light started flashing on top and it made lots of noise!

I think people saw me spin back around startled and then back away slowly. And I am sure they laughed. But I'm just looking for the Doctor because clearly DALEKS OMG SAVE ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


smonster - Feb 12, 2011 11:27:21 am PST #15349 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

You're not crazy at all, Seska. It was a logical reaction to a crazy situation.

There's revisionist history going on at work, and it's made me very angry. Like, so angry last night I took half a valium so I could sleep. I think I'm going to have to call the one coworker I think I can trust and talk to her about it.

I have three very fun invitations tonight: a party called "Achocolypse Now," where there will be lots of chocolate, unsurprisingly; an 80's dance party with my bellydance peeps, at which we are encouraged to dress up as our favorite 80's icon (I was thinking Pat Benatar, since I've got the look, somewhat); or a gallery reception/masquerade party. And yet, I don't know that I'm going to go to any of them. The two dress-up parties feel like too much effort (which is weird for me) and at the other one I'm worried I'll be the only singleton and I can't deal with that shit right now.

I need a partner in crime, dammit.

And I think it's time to admit that I'm bitter about Valentine's Day this year, unusually for me.