And I myself will be wearing pink taffeta as chenille would not go with my complexion.

Giles ,'Touched'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Scrappy - Feb 07, 2011 9:05:20 am PST #15051 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Why would ANYONE make negative comments about anyone of any size doing something healthy like exercising?


beekaytee - Feb 07, 2011 9:07:22 am PST #15052 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

No kidding. Quite apart from never speaking ill to strangers who are not hurting anyone being a thing...if you actually have the brainspace to negatively judge someone else's choices, wouldn't you want to be supportive.

Of course, shut the hell up is always a better option.


Fred Pete - Feb 07, 2011 9:10:10 am PST #15053 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.

Why would ANYONE make negative comments about anyone of any size doing something healthy like exercising?

Not a good idea to tear down someone who's at least making an effort. As for criticizing what's in the grocery cart, only a good friend who's expressing concern for my welfare even has a chance of getting away with it.


Laga - Feb 07, 2011 9:14:29 am PST #15054 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

In jr high a 'friend' of mine shouted at a jogger, "Keep running, honey!" I never spoke to her again.


beekaytee - Feb 07, 2011 9:17:41 am PST #15055 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

We have a seasonal jogging surge around here several times per year. I will occasionally murmur a 'great job' to a struggling passerby. Mostly, I show my respect for the effort by briskly getting out of the way.


Cashmere - Feb 07, 2011 9:27:13 am PST #15056 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

I read this column in Newsweek last year and it was inspiring.


Steph L. - Feb 07, 2011 9:45:07 am PST #15057 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

supermarkets are symbols of death.

??? I don't get this.


Kathy A - Feb 07, 2011 9:45:09 am PST #15058 of 30000
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil

I've had a few people comment on my grocery shopping cart contents in the past, usually by saying something like, "Don't you know that stuff isn't good for you? That's how you got the way you are!" Yes, this has happened more than once. I perfected the icy glare, but couldn't say anything to the second guy who told me that (the first time, I was too stunned) because he was an elderly man and I can't be rude to senior citizens, otherwise my dad would kill me.


Shir - Feb 07, 2011 9:48:45 am PST #15059 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

??? I don't get this.

Oh, an inside joke. Think of The Master's shouting "Mass Production!" and standing in front of 13 shelves with the same frakking product shoved into different packages. Everything's... too planned.

I die a little bit inside everytime I enter one. I know it's just me, though. Markets, however... markets are neat, if I'm up with being in a mass of people.


Steph L. - Feb 07, 2011 9:52:18 am PST #15060 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Everything's... too planned.

Well, planning leads to the store being consistently stocked, which makes it easier to actually shop for what one needs, instead of hoping it might be there this week.

But I am a creature of habit. I like to eat, which means I need to shop, and I like knowing that food will be there for me to exchange money for.