Wesley: We were fighting on opposite sides, but it was the same war. Fred: but you hated her…didn't you? Wesley: It's not always about holding hands.

'Shells'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Kate P. - Sep 07, 2010 10:34:41 am PDT #1487 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Kate, congratulations to you and your DH!!!

Oh wow, I have a DH now!! Wow. OK, that put a huge grin on my face.

Thanks, everyone! We're both back at work today, but unsurprisingly, I am not being terribly productive at the moment. Mostly looking at pictures on FB and trying to catch up here, and wishing we'd been able to take a honeymoon right away instead of having to wait until my vacation time renews in January.

In the meantime, ~ma to them who needs it (and tons of continued ~ma for Drew!). And sj, congrats on having a plan for a dress you'll love! It sounds gorgeous.


Vortex - Sep 07, 2010 10:35:44 am PDT #1488 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Yeah wasn't crazy about the title at all.


Vortex - Sep 07, 2010 10:36:42 am PDT #1489 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

but I am confused by the several references to happiness as an external reward or stimulus.

I took it to mean that "if you do X, you will be happy"


Laga - Sep 07, 2010 10:39:25 am PDT #1490 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

Congrats, Kate!


Spidra Webster - Sep 07, 2010 10:44:27 am PDT #1491 of 30000
I wish I could just go somewhere to get flensed but none of the whaling ships near me take Medicare.

Well, here's some positive news. An acquaintance of mine who is a VO pro (award-winning and such) is willing to give me a consultation while I'm up in the Bay Area. I hope that getting a realistic assessment of where I'm rusty and where I'm okay and where to go from there will help me get over my fear. I really need to because I don't have too many ways to get out of the poverty my disability has plunged me into.


-t - Sep 07, 2010 10:44:27 am PDT #1492 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That makes sense, Vortex. I couldn't decode that, somehow.

Congratulations, Kate! May your honeymoon-at-home be every bit as blissful as an immediate vacation.


Steph L. - Sep 07, 2010 11:06:33 am PDT #1493 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

The introvert article confused me on the use of the word "happiness," too. I finally decided they mean "happiness from an outside source," because it's poppycock to say that introverts don't want happiness.

I am, of course, almost a textbook introvert, and I cannot say how much I agree with this part:

Don't interrupt if an introvert does get to talking. Listen closely. "Being overlooked is a really big issue for introverts," Laney says. Introverts are unlikely to repeat themselves; they will not risk making the same mistake twice.

Seriously. It fucking pisses me off to no end when people interrupt while I'm talking. Interrupting with wisecracks and puns is practically a competitive sport in my office, and I want to go all Evil Hand every time someone does it to me.


Vortex - Sep 07, 2010 11:07:34 am PDT #1494 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

DCistas:

Sent to you by sharynh via Google Reader: Casting Now: What Not to Wear - DC via mediabistro.com: FishbowlDC on 9/7/10

Know a DC damsel in fashion distress? If so, she's in luck because Clinton Kelly, Stacy London and the fine folks from TLC's "What Not to Wear" are filming four episodes in Washington...but they need your help to find these lucky fashion victims.

If you know a style-challenged individual in need of a serious intervention, contact casting producer and friend of FishbowlDC Michael Petrella with the info requested after the jump.


lisah - Sep 07, 2010 11:16:44 am PDT #1495 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Ha I was thinking this morning "What if WNTW is following me with the hidden cameras?!" I was a mess as I so often am on my way to work.


Zenkitty - Sep 07, 2010 11:17:43 am PDT #1496 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

but they need your help to find these lucky fashion victims

Lucky? If anyone did that to me, I would kill them. On camera. Dressed *fabulously*.