My whole life, I've never loved anything else.

Oz ,'Him'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


amyth - Feb 03, 2011 11:45:21 am PST #14744 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Feel better, DCJ, and Trudy, with additional luck to Trudy for the babytimes.

You know, this is going to sound crazy, but I'm not sure I knew that. I thought you were more of an introvert. I mean, I know I knew your MBTI at one point but I've forgotten.

I'm so far on the E scale on the MBTI that there's practically no I. I definitely get my energy from other people. But I forget that you've only known me since after 2000, when I started having seizures, had to give up driving, had to give up control over how and when I got pretty much everywhere--from errands to social things and so on, and had to zen the fuck out about it or go totally insane. I went from being the person that hyper-planned everything social in our circle of friends to being the person who sometimes got to come along if it was convenient for me to get a ride, or occasionally invite folks over to my place. And, biggest change of all, I had to get comfortable being by myself for long stretches of time, because this happened right after T. and I stopped living together the first time (before he met G.) and I moved into the purple house. Then I not only had to get comfortable with that loss of control over myself, and EVERYONE ELSE (heh), and get comfortable with being by myself, I actually started to enjoy being alone from time to time. Which was probably just a sanity-preserving tactic, but whatever works.

Talky meat, nevertheless, I'm still an extrovert.


meara - Feb 03, 2011 12:14:43 pm PST #14745 of 30000

Argh. I've been seriously Jonesing for some sun. And had four friends who were down and going to join me in Mexico. Well, now the last one just announced she can't go. And I'm irked, because she kept putting off talking about it and looking into it because she was busy...an now it's too late to move some work stuff around and so she's too busy to go. She's like "can we go in may?". Um. No, May is not a spring vacay!


sj - Feb 03, 2011 12:23:12 pm PST #14746 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Someone stole our CSA share this week, from a church! Luckily the CSA farm is going to replace it tomorrow. IOgoodN, one more iron treatment down, three more to go! I have been promised that I will start feeling the energy boost after the next treatment.

I like the Miss Spider books, but I haven't seen the cartoon. G is more into anything with a truck, especially a fire engine, or Elmo.


Cass - Feb 03, 2011 12:30:35 pm PST #14747 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

and woke up cheerful a while later

Amazing what enough sleep can do...


Connie Neil - Feb 03, 2011 12:52:53 pm PST #14748 of 30000
brillig

No, May is not a spring vacay!

Is May summer where you are?


smonster - Feb 03, 2011 1:03:00 pm PST #14749 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Talky meat, nevertheless, I'm still an extrovert.

I really regret that I was dating that asshole pretty much the whole time we lived together.

Guess what? I'm at CVS waiting to get a flu shot.


Laga - Feb 03, 2011 1:05:10 pm PST #14750 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

no side effects~ma, smonster


amyth - Feb 03, 2011 1:06:22 pm PST #14751 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Guess what? I'm at CVS waiting to get a flu shot.

Dang! What hours do they do them? I need to do that. ASAP.


smonster - Feb 03, 2011 1:07:56 pm PST #14752 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh, thanks. That was mostly for amyth's benefit, it's been a saga for both of us to get one this year.

Work was GREAT today. Relaxed, good pace, lots of laughter and good discussion about nutrition and dream houses and such.


Barb - Feb 03, 2011 1:08:54 pm PST #14753 of 30000
“Not dead yet!”

I'm worried that my anemia has been creeping back. I have very little energy and tend to get lightheaded easily. Do Not Want