Oh, Laura. Stay strong. Make those boundaries. You have been more than reasonable.
Seska! I think the interview is very cool.
Today is going much better. Thanks for the support, y'all.
Occasionally I'm callous and strange.
Willow ,'The Killer In Me'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
smonster - Jan 28, 2011 5:47:48 am PST #14164 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Laura - Jan 28, 2011 6:24:55 am PST #14165 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.
Thank you. I really appreciate the support. I do remember how much I understood about parents and the realities of the world at 19 (absolutely nothing) and know there is no shortcut to maturity. He will get it in time. He just has to figure it out elsewhere. I can't allow the disharmony in my home any more.
DavidS - Jan 28, 2011 6:31:32 am PST #14166 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
I'm sorry, Laura. I wish you could send B off to Habitat for Humanity in the Dominican or somewhere for three or four months and have him learn a thing or two about the world.
beekaytee - Jan 28, 2011 6:32:40 am PST #14167 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
AZO Standard pills work great. Ice packs are really helpful. Avoid acidic foods - this includes cranberry juice. I know it can be beneficial but the acidity can cause more irritation. also spicy foods can cause irritation.
Askye, I think you are completely right about the acidity thing. Somehow, my chemistry has changed and the high doses of cranberry et. al. are just making me feel worse.
Thanks for the thoughts.
Andi, I love that the visualization is working for you. I'm so glad for you.
Zenkitty - Jan 28, 2011 6:55:18 am PST #14168 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
I can't allow the disharmony in my home any more.
I think my sister's slowly coming to this conclusion, as well. Good luck, Laura.
Thanks for the thoughts, everyone.
beekaytee - Jan 28, 2011 7:05:02 am PST #14169 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
I can't allow the disharmony in my home any more.
This is such a powerful stance. AND, as my specialty is 'what we say is what we see', I'd love to hear what you would prefer to invite and entertain in your home.
Me? I welcome warmth and ease of communication in my home. The result is, sometimes, people don't leave when I want them to!
Atropa - Jan 28, 2011 9:24:53 am PST #14170 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
{{{Laura}}}
Atropa - Jan 28, 2011 9:25:53 am PST #14171 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
And in a separate post: jacket of coveting is up to 82 Pounds Sterling, grrr. I haven't bid yet; I am waiting until the last day.
WindSparrow - Jan 28, 2011 9:27:25 am PST #14172 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
{{{{{Laura}}}}}} Stay strong. I know it hurts. But you are right to defend your home and protect your own property.
tommyrot - Jan 28, 2011 9:48:36 am PST #14173 of 30000
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.
{{Laura}}
I just thought of something: Has your car insurance gone up as a result of your son's accidents? If so, you could see if your insurance company would lower your rates if you sign a form saying your son will not be allowed to drive your vehicles. That way you can save money and have a good excuse for not letting him borrow your van.