Jayne: What're you gonna tell the others? Mal: About what? Jayne: About why I'm dead. Mal: Hadn't thought about it. Jayne: Make something up. Don't tell 'em what I did.

'Ariel'


Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 24, 2011 5:21:02 am PST #13814 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Every time I hear about something like this I think about those people who are unable to fight as hard for what they need as you were able to in this situation.

Before he died, my uncle was an advocate for the disabled. He was loud, aggressive, and sometimes a little over the top, but it was because he was fighting for people whose voices couldn't be heard (sometimes literally) and governments, businesses, and other institutions do a good job of pretending not to hear when it comes to the disabled.

He had to advocate for himself a lot after his accident and found he was good at it and understood how horribly difficult it was for many people to do the same.

I miss him.


WindSparrow - Jan 24, 2011 7:08:31 am PST #13815 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I didn't mean to be awesome.

You are so awesome, that it just oozes out of you when you aren't trying.

He had to advocate for himself a lot after his accident and found he was good at it and understood how horribly difficult it was for many people to do the same.

I miss him.

He sounds like he was awesome, too.

Ginger! I got your package! In fact, it may have arrived on Saturday, but we just forgot to check the mail. But what a darling little book it is. Thank you! It is making me smile.


Nora Deirdre - Jan 24, 2011 7:19:17 am PST #13816 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

cereal:

If I could get some tenant~ma, that would be great. I am hoping that our crazy tenant will take the opportunity to move out of my condo this week.


WindSparrow - Jan 24, 2011 7:26:56 am PST #13817 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Nora, sending out the tenant~ma. Not just that this one moves on, but that your next one(s) will be decent, responsible people who don't annoy your former neighbors so much.


erin_obscure - Jan 24, 2011 7:32:33 am PST #13818 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

seconding the tenant~ma. Landlording is hard.


erikaj - Jan 24, 2011 7:47:44 am PST #13819 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

I'm a decent advocate, but it's from necessity, not love of the game. I tried really hard to develop passion for it, because that seems to be the one place on the planet people really want me to be, but all I found is that I like winning a lot, which, you know, duh!


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Jan 24, 2011 8:32:34 am PST #13820 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Teaching was great! Lovely class. Lots of very engaged students who are interested in the subject. Always good.

I'm a decent advocate, but it's from necessity, not love of the game.

That's true for me too, but I'm developing a love of it anyway. I couldn't do it (or equality training) full-time, though. I admire TG for planning to.

He sounds like he was awesome, too.

He really does.


meara - Jan 24, 2011 10:13:27 am PST #13821 of 30000

Argh. And OUCH. I just went to the dentist and they say I need a crown. I don't understand why they can't just toss some glue or cement on the crack. $500 even after my insurance. Eeeeesh.


Liese S. - Jan 24, 2011 10:17:26 am PST #13822 of 30000
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

Yay, Seska! I was thinking about your first day!
 
And blarg, meara, that`s terrible.


erin_obscure - Jan 24, 2011 10:29:26 am PST #13823 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange

Meara - are they recommending a crown just because it's the only procedure your insurance will cover? i had an experience with an old filling cracking and creating problems, and the initial solution was a crown. I pushed a little not wanting to just cut off the whole top of my tooth and they instead did a (more expensive) 2 part process inlay that allowed me to keep more of my tooth. The downside is that most insurances won't pay for it....but my (limited, 2nd hand) experience with crowns is less than awesome. I haven't had any problems with the inlay (*knocks on wood*) aside from the week of a temporary inlay while waiting for it to be custom made.