Wishing to be treated in a certain way doesn't make you unfeminine.
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Much love to you, Jilli, and Pete and your Dad.
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Oh Jilli, deepest, deepest sympathies to you and yours. Such a sad loss.
Oh, Jilli. Peace and strength to you, your father and Pete.
{{{Jilli}}} I'm so sorry.
Jilli, I am so sorry. It's woefully inadequate, but I'm sending all my love to you and your family.
{{Jilli}} All my love and condolences to you, Pete and Dad'O'Reason.
{{{Jilli}}} I am so so sorry. Peace and love to you and your family.
Jilli, I'm so sorry for your loss - but happy that your father could be there with her. (And you, if you were there.)