Jilli I'm so sorry. All my thoughts to you, to her, to your Dad and family.
See, in my fantasy, when I'm kissing you... you're kissing me. It's okay. I can wait.
Oz ,'First Date'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Typo Boy - Jan 20, 2011 2:36:19 pm PST #13633 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.
erin_obscure - Jan 20, 2011 2:40:05 pm PST #13634 of 30000
Occasionally I’m callous and strange
{{{{Jilli & House of Reason}}}}
{{{amyth}}}}
sometimes numb is good. it protects us from being utterly overwhelmed with futility. May some mindless internetting help soothe your hearts.
beekaytee - Jan 20, 2011 2:42:34 pm PST #13635 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant
Oh, Jilli-- all my thoughts for you and Pete and your dad. I'll light a candle tonight for peace and strength to all of you.
Barb said what I meant to say Jilli. Peace, strength and ease to you all.
Dana - Jan 20, 2011 2:47:08 pm PST #13636 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
I'm so sorry, Jilli.
ChiKat - Jan 20, 2011 2:51:43 pm PST #13637 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
{{{Jilli}}} I am so so sorry. Every story you've ever shared about your mother makes me love her. Peace and love and comfort to you, your Dad, Pete, and your mom.
DavidS - Jan 20, 2011 2:56:07 pm PST #13638 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
Oh Jilli, what devastating news. I'm so fond of your parents from all the stories you've shared of them. What a long, loving marriage they've had, and what warm, protective, snarkling, sweetly loopy gifts they gave to you as parents.
I'm so sorry to hear the news, and my thoughts are with you and Pete, and your Mom and Dad.
brenda m - Jan 20, 2011 2:56:57 pm PST #13639 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Oh Jilli. I'm so very sorry. Much love to you all.
Steph L. - Jan 20, 2011 3:01:54 pm PST #13640 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
Jilli, all my love to you and your family.
smonster - Jan 20, 2011 3:43:33 pm PST #13641 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Oh, Jilli, dear. There aren't any words for how sorry I am. I remember meeting your parents at the F2F, and how utterly lovely they both were individually and as a couple. She is so fortunate to have built a life with your dad and brought you into the world, and if I could move heaven and earth and keep her here with you for decades more I'd do it in an instant.
All the comfort and love in the world to her, and to you and your dad, for all the days you have together.
I don't think I could possibly say it any better than JZ. Adding my love and comfort to hers.
Aims - Jan 20, 2011 3:50:09 pm PST #13642 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
Those who have spoke before me express my sentiments exactly. I am so sorry, Jilli. I wish there was more I could do and say to comfort you, Pete and Dad o'Reason right now.