Yes. How you feel about it is important to you, but what is more important are your actions. Feelings are valid, but being an adult is being able to act contrary to our feelings.
This. Teppy, it very much matters.
Willow: That's a work ethic! Buffy, you're developing a work ethic! Buffy: Do they make an ointment for that?
'Beneath You'
Spike's Bitches 46: Don't I get a cookie?
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
sj - Dec 31, 2010 2:01:02 pm PST #12088 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Cass - Dec 31, 2010 2:18:09 pm PST #12089 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
And he said, "I think it mattered to *him*."
The Boy is wise.
The important thing is you helped. The next important thing is to realize that you are allowed to feel resentful about being the only one. You are totally allowed this because YOU HELPED. You are the awesome person in this situation, just also a human person with human feelings.
smonster - Dec 31, 2010 2:19:01 pm PST #12090 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
It definitely matters.
I'm at my parents. Sis seemed to like the flowers and get well card I brought her. We're watching a Carole King/James Taylor DVD and the JT ballads are making me a little sniffly. Carole King has held up quite well and can still rock it.
smonster - Dec 31, 2010 2:23:18 pm PST #12091 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
I mean, he's done Carolina In My Mind, Sweet Baby James, Fire and Rain, and now You've Got a Friend. I'm such a sap, and I don't even care. This music is deep in my bones.
smonster - Dec 31, 2010 3:31:05 pm PST #12092 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Dude, I killed the thread with JT? I'm so sorry.
Anne W. - Dec 31, 2010 3:32:17 pm PST #12093 of 30000
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
joins smonster in JT adoration
Cass - Dec 31, 2010 3:36:40 pm PST #12094 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Dude, it's JT. We were all just feeling mellow.
erikaj - Dec 31, 2010 4:17:35 pm PST #12095 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!
"You've Got A Friend" is amazing live.
Hil R. - Dec 31, 2010 4:19:31 pm PST #12096 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l
I'm watching Men In Black. I think the last time I watched this was when it first came out. It's still kind of fun.
sj - Dec 31, 2010 4:21:48 pm PST #12097 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
There is nothing wrong with James Taylor love, imho.
I was watching a Buffy marathon on Logo today, and I kept getting teary eyed. I'm about 2/3 of the way done with what needs to get done, and I am fucking exhausted. I'm sick of this low energy crap. Hopefully my doctor next week will have some useful suggestions.