Mal: Does.. um.. does this seem kind of tight? Kaylee: Shows off your backside.

'Shindig'


Natter 66: Get Your Kicks.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


smonster - Jun 22, 2010 8:16:04 am PDT #8163 of 30001
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh, guess what!?! You know who all is playing here in the next few months? Rebirth! and Galactic! I MUST GO!

Double awesometastic!


Aims - Jun 22, 2010 8:16:40 am PDT #8164 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I totally didn't know you were bisexual. I am clearly not nosy enough into my friends' lives.

Ha! When Joe and I were getting married and choosing our wedding parties, I asked J, who is an ex-girlfriend of Joe's, to be a bridesmaid. Then I said, "If you're ex-girlfriend is in the wedding party, can I ask mine?"

It was a pretty amusing wedding. "How many women here have slept with either the bride OR the groom?"

I don't mention it much because while I am still very much attracted to and have affection for women in a romantic way, there are aspects of labeling myself "bi" that I take issue with. Many are the same that Teppy and other have talked about, and oddly, some of them still stem from the fact that I *HATED* the term "bi" for a very long time and also thought it to be a bullshit term someone used who just wanted to fuck everyone.

I know now that that is NOT the case and does NOT apply across the board, but there are still some self-loathing feelings knocking about in there from when I was very afraid to come out to my family (which I have not) even though they honestly could care less.

And now, I'm married and monogamous with the person I fell in love with and who fit me best. And even though I've been known to engage in the kissy-times with women, it's mostly with women who are safe, so to speak. Like many Buffista women. So to use the "bi" label feels false.

If any of that drivel makes any sense.


Strix - Jun 22, 2010 8:22:47 am PDT #8165 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

You're a kissexual.


Trudy Booth - Jun 22, 2010 8:23:38 am PDT #8166 of 30001
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

As long as you put your tongue in my mouth its all good, Aims...


Steph L. - Jun 22, 2010 8:23:44 am PDT #8167 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

So to use the "bi" label feels false.

If any of that drivel makes any sense.

Perfectly. Since there really ain't no label that fits me now. Not really.

t edit I should note, it doesn't bother me that there isn't a label that suits me. It's just...weird.


Aims - Jun 22, 2010 8:24:03 am PDT #8168 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Equal Kissing Opportunist!


aurelia - Jun 22, 2010 8:25:03 am PDT #8169 of 30001
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

iTa

What new product from Apple would this be?


tommyrot - Jun 22, 2010 8:26:06 am PDT #8170 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

iTeaching Assistant?


Polter-Cow - Jun 22, 2010 8:26:23 am PDT #8171 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

A digital boob?


tommyrot - Jun 22, 2010 8:27:17 am PDT #8172 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

I asked google to 'define: ta'

This is one result:

Various patterns of chronic inflammation in which there is a mixture of cells including histiocytes. May include multinucleated giant cells. May include necrosis, foreign material or microorganisms, depending on the cause.