I have an ex who contacted me on fb to apologize. clearly in recovery. I didn't respond, as his name since break-up has been crazy-firstname and you know, not like we are going to be friends or even friendly. I forgive him, did a while ago.

Wow. All of a sudden it got very dark and windy.

Tom, those are gorgeous. door knobs confuse me as I do not know what would work where.

I had to turn up my music because the wind outside is so loud.

I am a little surprised how hard it is to find just solid color seat covers. And am I crazy or were there seat covers out of t-shirt material a few years back?

Damn, y'all. Some of the buildings around mine have alarms going off.

Chicago, please do not fly away.

msbelle, I have seen people slide t-shirts over car seats ... although it wouldn't work for the back seat.

There. The red stuff (on radar) is now over Lake Michigan, and the storm intensity has dropped to just a regular storm.

And then I was like "is that bad that an apology immediately makes me wonder if you're in recovery, like that's the only reason people ever apologize for old shit??"

well, I did it once when someone brought it to my attention. But I mostly apologized because the person who brought it to my attention was being an asshat and I wanted the other person to say "oh, it wasn't a big deal, Asshat is blowing it out of proportion" which she did.