I'm impressed by anyone who can see anything on an ultrasound. Every anatomy sono I've had has involved a lot of smiling and nodding while I blindly assume the tech knows what they're doing.

There are so many options and so much information - however accurate - about each one, it's enough to crush your spirit.

Well, that's probably why I opted for a "Good Enough" parenting philosophy. The biggest difference between how I was raised and how I raise my kids is really that I spend much, much more time with my children than my father did with me. And he was a fairly actively involved Dad for his generation, and culture (military).

I am conscious though of not being too much in my kids lives. I liked having my own brain space growing up, and being away from my parents.

Connie, I wouldn't have a problem with the training, because I'd be all "Whee! Origami folding on company time! Take that, The Man!"

I'm impressed by anyone who can see anything on an ultrasound. Every anatomy sono I've had has involved a lot of smiling and nodding while I blindly assume the tech knows what they're doing.

I deeply regret seeing the 3-D imaging of the head which made the skull looked like a candy bowl, instead of enclosed.

ION, I took the initiative and approached my boss. He was actually very nice about the whole thing and I left feeling fine.

Oh, yay!

So I should get a call today either offering me this job or not. If I get the offer, I'm going to ask for a day or so to consider - that's normal, right? And I'm making a list of things I want to know - salary, vacation, health insurance, and a little more about my responsibilities. What am I missing? Oh, what tools I need to supply, if any.

JAXA uses origami to test potential astronauts during isolation training.

Not really parenting related except it was linked to on ParentHacks - this app looks really useful for Clean All The Things-ing:

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(But I hope there's a light/trial version because I don't like spending more than .99 on apps I'm not sure about.)

Under the heading of "Where there's an internet, there's a kerfuffle," I'm now subscribed to a listserv on lead paint safety and there's a tit-for-tat going on between a state health employee and a woman who's very angry about the way her daughter's health problems were addressed. He just invoked the Kubler-Ross stages of grief and ended with "Occasionally I have to deal with someone who can't work through the process and remains in one of the stages (ie ANGER) for years. This is not healthy and is, in fact, a self destructive behavior. In those rare cases the person would benefit from the services of a mental health professional."

Oh, mansplaining SNAP! Because, you know, if your daughter suffered lead poisoning and the state sided with your landlord, you just need to get over it.

"Occasionally I have to deal with someone who can't work through the process and remains in one of the stages (ie ANGER) for years. This is not healthy and is, in fact, a self destructive behavior. In those rare cases the person would benefit from the services of a mental health professional."

SMASH.

I mean, I don't know who's in the right and who's in the wrong for sure, but he sounds like a massive self-righteous douchebag. And I'm pretty sure it's inappropriate for him to be trashing her on a semi-public forum.