Paging Suzi: can I kill the person on Facebook who just lectured K-bug about making phone calls instead of using Facebook? 'cause that girl has PISSED me right off. Just give me the word and I will punch her in the FACE.
Hours later. We spent the day in Boulder with very little connection to the outside world. Kinda what Kelly needed. When we got home and she read that message, she wrote her a private response. Ya know how I talk about my "nephew", she is his mom. And she acts like she is E's mom too.
But for me, help yourself. She deserves a punch in the face for her attitude.
A day after my massage, I feel like my masseuse was torturing me for information about my secret espionage activities.
We are at my grandmother's to celebrate her birthday. Extended family here. Mac played all day with my cousin's son and then had a mini meltdown this evening. None of them really know what it's like when mac meltdown so it disturbs them, but really this was small and he pulled himself together. I am very proud.
But for me, help yourself. She deserves a punch in the face for her attitude.
Suzi, yeah, I clicked on her profile and made the connection that she was probably your cohort, not K-bug's and it made a bit more sense. Talking about splits in any public venue is difficult enough. The one thing going for it though is that you can get it over and done with and not be forced into 200 different conversations about it with each person as he or she finds out.
Either way sucks, really.
What bugged me about her message was how she made K-Bug's sad situation into a LECTURE about how to use Facebook. It's like HELLO, she's wrecked and vulnerable and this is how you react?
The one thing going for it though is that you can get it over and done with
And that was exactly why she did it that way. She isn't ready to talk about it all much. When her BFF called, Kelly told her that she would explain what happened in e-mail - talking about it would have set off the water works.
I forget what I have said here, but early this morning Kelly and E broke up. She has been holding up pretty well but it is all still very raw.
Poor Kelly. I'm glad she's got you for a mom.
Poor K-Bug. I'm glad she's there with you right now instead of at school.
Hey Suz, do me a favor tomorrow... I don't want to make her cry or upset her at all so pinch me or something if I head down a wrong path, please.
I'll definitely let her be the one to bring it up, if at all, but, you know. Just in case.
Oops. Forgot to congratulate Mac on pulling out of his meltdown. With so much mental stimulation and change going on it's great that he was able to do that tonight. Yay!
Oh man, I meant to congratulate Mac also. So glad he has Msbelle for a mom.
Nicole - no problem. She knows you know and all that, so it isn't like she is having to tell you.
I know there are a chunk of you who are friends with her on FB and, while I have always known Buffistas are wonderful, the outpouring of support she has gotten today completely underlines that fact. Thank you.
