Oh, so you never actually met?
Nope.
So, is 15 minutes long enough to wait for a (first) date to show? Later she texted that she thought I had stood her up. Which OK, that feeling sucks, and I hate it too when people are late, but 15 minutes?
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Oh, so you never actually met?
Nope.
So, is 15 minutes long enough to wait for a (first) date to show? Later she texted that she thought I had stood her up. Which OK, that feeling sucks, and I hate it too when people are late, but 15 minutes?
Personally, I wouldn't give it much more than 15 minutes, but I'd probably text at 10 minutes after the time and wait another 5-10.
15 minutes is a not unreasonable cut-off point if there's been no word of delay from the other party.
Well, that sucks, tommy. But she sounds kinda snippy, so maybe... just as well?
Oh, dear. Sorry, tommy.
15 minutes of sitting alone at a bar waiting for an answering text can be a long time.
Not that I'm saying it's your fault, obviously. Are you going to try meeting up again?
Also, who just takes the greeter's word for it? If I'm meeting someone, I always look, just in case. More often than not my party has been there and they just didn't know/weren't told/didn't care.
Yeah, I would definitely do a walk-around before leaving. Shit happens. Anyway, are you going to reschedule?
15 minutes is a not unreasonable cut-off point if there's been no word of delay from the other party.
Hmmm... See, I'm more like Phil Collins: "I waited for you for hours in the rain."
OK, not that bad....
OK, then I'm not mad at her for bailing in 15.
My phone says her first text as "received at 7:29 stored 7:47", whatever that means.
Yeah definitely worth another shot!