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Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


tommyrot - May 03, 2010 1:03:33 pm PDT #27085 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Yay Allyson!!


Pix - May 03, 2010 1:05:08 pm PDT #27086 of 30001
The status is NOT quo.

Allyson, that's wonderful news. Congrats!


Hil R. - May 03, 2010 1:06:15 pm PDT #27087 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Congrats, Allyson!


Hil R. - May 03, 2010 1:07:38 pm PDT #27088 of 30001
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

This seems like it might be an interesting read. [link]

The paradox is this: Cultural conservatives revel in condemning the loose moral values and louche lifestyles of "San Francisco liberals." But if you want to find two-parent families with stable marriages and coddled kids, your best bet is to bypass Sarah Palin country and go to Nancy Pelosi territory: the liberal, bicoastal, predominantly Democratic places that cultural conservatives love to hate.

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Naomi Cahn and June Carbone -- family law professors at George Washington University and the University of Missouri (Kansas City), respectively -- suggest that the apparent paradox is no paradox at all. Rather, it is the natural consequence of a cultural divide that has opened wide over the past few decades and shows no sign of closing. To define the divide in a sentence: In red America, families form adults; in blue America, adults form families.


Jesse - May 03, 2010 1:11:15 pm PDT #27089 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Hooray, Allyson!!!


Allyson - May 03, 2010 1:12:59 pm PDT #27090 of 30001
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Hee. Thanks. I'm so grateful that I'll be able to hold it in my hand. And JZ will be my editor, so I can't trash talk my editor here. heh.


DebetEsse - May 03, 2010 1:13:14 pm PDT #27091 of 30001
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Congrats, Allyson

Interesting thesis, Hil. It makes sense to me on first reflection.


Gudanov - May 03, 2010 1:18:24 pm PDT #27092 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

The paradox is this . . .

I would think that blue state populations just marry later, so there is less change to upset the marriage.


Jesse - May 03, 2010 1:19:09 pm PDT #27093 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

And JZ will be my editor, so I can't trash talk my editor here.

Who with the what now?


tommyrot - May 03, 2010 1:19:17 pm PDT #27094 of 30001
Sir, it's not an offence to let your cat eat your bacon. Okay? And we don't arrest cats, I'm very sorry.

Interesting thesis, Hil. It makes sense to me on first reflection.

Yeah.

Personally, I can't imagine starting a family at, say, age 18. When I was 18, my girlfriend told me she wanted to get married. Thing I didn't say: "Are you insane?" What I did say, "Maybe I'll consider it when we're out of college."