Let him do his thing, and then you get him out. No messing with him for laughs.

Mal ,'Ariel'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


juliana - Apr 13, 2010 12:14:56 pm PDT #22741 of 30001
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

Doesn't she have a Nazi tatto, though?

There is an Iron Eagle with a swastika in the middle right above her, um, intimate area. And Carey, really?


Amy - Apr 13, 2010 12:17:08 pm PDT #22742 of 30001
Because books.

There is an Iron Eagle with a swastika in the middle right above her, um, intimate area.

I knew I had heard something like that.


Strix - Apr 13, 2010 12:19:33 pm PDT #22743 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Hmm. I think if I were "on a break" from my husband/boyfriend, it would depend what we were breaking for. Cheating? Intimacy? I'd spell it out, also -- we are on a break, so what are we trying to accomplish, and can we mess around?

But I am blunt. Hmm. I dunno. I've seen too many relationships split and break becuase of a threesome, or an open relationship that doesn't have clearly defined expectations. It's just...fraught. I think people go into it with oftentimes the idea of pleasing either their partner or themselves, and don't really parse out what does this mean to us as couple.

I would have no problems, say, if D. were to kiss or grab ass a little with one of my girlfriends, because I would know it to be harmless. Basically, if you do it in front of me, it's ok. If you do it without my knowledge, there's gonna be some pain.


brenda m - Apr 13, 2010 12:28:49 pm PDT #22744 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

So, uh, not exactly easy to miss.


Amy - Apr 13, 2010 12:31:33 pm PDT #22745 of 30001
Because books.

Given the nature of the lyrics on Funhouse, I think Pink was assuming they were over for good. But it would still squick me big time to know a guy I loved went ahead and slept with someone after he saw that.

And like brenda says, in that place it's not easy to miss when you're having naked time.


Strix - Apr 13, 2010 12:32:28 pm PDT #22746 of 30001
A dress should be tight enough to show you're a woman but loose enough to flee from zombies. — Ginger

Que?

EDIT: Oh, the tat!! Gosh, I don't know. When faced with a naked woman, I think many guys have kind of a narrowed vision. One would hope one would remark on something of that nature, but she's got a shitton of ink.


Sheryl - Apr 13, 2010 12:34:09 pm PDT #22747 of 30001
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Happy Birthday Lillian!


Daisy Jane - Apr 13, 2010 12:35:24 pm PDT #22748 of 30001
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."

I am like Erin. Bright clear shiny boundaries. If you fuck up with me, you will know exactly what you have done. I don't like mess.


Zenkitty - Apr 13, 2010 12:43:58 pm PDT #22749 of 30001
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I stand with DJ and Erin. Clearly defined boundaries - doesn't matter so much WHAT they are so much as that they are understood and agreed by bothall parties involved. I've been in a threesome and it worked very well for us, because we all agreed on how things would work. (The relationship disintegrated in flames, but not because of sex or crossed boundary lines. Crazy increases exponentially, not linearly, with the number of crazy people in the equation.)


DavidS - Apr 13, 2010 12:45:55 pm PDT #22750 of 30001
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Just went to look at a 2002 Honda Civic Hybrid. If all the money lines up we'll get it tomorrow. (JZ's dad is kicking in money.)

Key Selling Point: Has HOV sticker, which allows us to not only go in the car pool lane but not pay bridge toll. They don't hand these out with hybrids anymore but the original stickers are still good. That would be a significant savings for us, like $100/month.