Death is your art. You make it with your hands day after day. That final gasp, that look of peace. And part of you is desperate to know: What's it like? Where does it lead you? And now you see, that's the secret. Not the punch you didn't throw or the kicks you didn't land. She really wanted it. Every Slayer has a death wish. Even you.

Spike ,'Conversations with Dead People'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Stephanie - Mar 18, 2010 7:35:44 am PDT #17094 of 30001
Trust my rage

Plus, I think because IM is more casual, and there's generally no record kept, it's better for asking stuff like "what's X's phone number" I hate sending email for that crap. But email is better for creating a record and covering your ass.

My brother uses IM at work a lot but he almost always has his status set to red (away, I guess), but he puts a message in there like "working on a project; email requests" so it looks like he's still present. I mean, I think he usually is there working on stuff. He just hates to be bothered when he's in the middle of stuff.


msbelle - Mar 18, 2010 7:38:56 am PDT #17095 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Our email does not pop up on screen, so lots of email get ignored.


§ ita § - Mar 18, 2010 7:41:05 am PDT #17096 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

IM's a good place to have fast conversations, and to nail someone down to answering you right away. Except the person I most need to talk to this morning has her "do not disturb" blinds up. Figures.

It's the same sort of "stopping immediately to address things" as the phone, except I get to keep a text record of it on my computer, and it's free.

Which has just reminded me, I just thought of another person who's ignored my most recent emails and I should try and IM stalk before calling.


brenda m - Mar 18, 2010 7:43:23 am PDT #17097 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

And doesn't clog up your inbox.


beekaytee - Mar 18, 2010 7:46:06 am PDT #17098 of 30001
Compassionately intolerant

Comcast guy just drilled two holes in the kitchen wall. I never really thought about what it would take to get the cable inside. Not pretty. Ugh.


Laura - Mar 18, 2010 7:48:27 am PDT #17099 of 30001
Our wings are not tired.

I don't IM. It always freaks me out when a chat window opens in GMail or FaceBook.


megan walker - Mar 18, 2010 7:49:00 am PDT #17100 of 30001
"What kind of magical sunshine and lollipop world do you live in? Because you need to be medicated."-SFist

Yeah, I'm a ruthless deleter. I clean out my inbox at a minimum of once a day and the only thing in there is about a dozen emails that serve as reminders of things outstanding.


msbelle - Mar 18, 2010 7:50:15 am PDT #17101 of 30001
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

If I didn't keep emails I would have been nailed on several things due to what people say they were never told about or never responded to.


Polter-Cow - Mar 18, 2010 7:51:20 am PDT #17102 of 30001
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

I save everything, which is why the new policy of auto-deleting messages after 120 days—unless they are moved into Managed Folders archives—makes me twitchy.


Gudanov - Mar 18, 2010 7:53:13 am PDT #17103 of 30001
Coding and Sleeping

I like to keep all e-mails that aren't total chaff. Having a record of conversations is very useful.