Buffy: How bored were you last year? Giles: I watched 'Passions' with Spike. Let us never speak of it.

'Beneath You'


Natter 65: Speed Limit Enforced by Aircraft  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, pandas, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Amy - Feb 23, 2010 5:44:18 am PST #10034 of 30001
Because books.

Also, when I wear jeans, I am also female, and I'm militant about that. Female is my default state, fighting, coding, sci-fi, comics, everything. The stereotype can go fuck itself.

Feminine is the cultural baggage, to me.

That's a good distinction to make, I think. I do feel very female when I'm dressed as I usually am (jeans, sweaters, boots) but there is a difference in how feminine I feel when I've got on nail polish or I'm wearing a dress.


Steph L. - Feb 23, 2010 5:48:33 am PST #10035 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I do feel very female

This is something that I think about a lot, for obvious reasons. And my conclusion is, I have NO idea what being female "feels like." (Which is not a slam on you, Amy; it's more my internal maunderings.)

Performing "feminine," I understand. (As well its corollary, performing "masculine.") But feeling female -- I don't know what that means *for me*.


Tom Scola - Feb 23, 2010 5:48:51 am PST #10036 of 30001
hwæt

The Cassini space probe flew by Saturn and took photos of its moon, Mimas. Wait a minute, that's no moon!


Jesse - Feb 23, 2010 5:50:13 am PST #10037 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Also, when I wear jeans, I am also female, and I'm militant about that. Female is my default state, fighting, coding, sci-fi, comics, everything. The stereotype can go fuck itself.

Sure. That's why I was trying to draw the distinction between being and performing.


Aims - Feb 23, 2010 5:53:35 am PST #10038 of 30001
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Please let me be this awesome when I'm Old As Fuck: [link]


Steph L. - Feb 23, 2010 5:56:35 am PST #10039 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Wait a minute, that's no moon!

That's excellent.


Amy - Feb 23, 2010 5:56:53 am PST #10040 of 30001
Because books.

This is something that I think about a lot, for obvious reasons. And my conclusion is, I have NO idea what being female "feels like."

It's so interesting, because I'm trying to think why I feel that way, and I'm not coming up with anything that explains it. And there are certainly times when I feel more masculine, although I hesitate to call it "tomboyish" because I associate that with climbing trees and playing kickball and skipping rocks or something, which isn't me.

I'm not sure I have enough caffeine for this yet, though.


Jesse - Feb 23, 2010 5:58:15 am PST #10041 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Please let me be this awesome when I'm Old As Fuck: [link]

That is fantastic! Good job by the bikers as well.


Jesse - Feb 23, 2010 5:59:23 am PST #10042 of 30001
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Can I still get riding-ish boots, or will they be out by next year?


Steph L. - Feb 23, 2010 6:01:35 am PST #10043 of 30001
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

This is something that I think about a lot, for obvious reasons. And my conclusion is, I have NO idea what being female "feels like."

It's so interesting, because I'm trying to think why I feel that way, and I'm not coming up with anything that explains it.

Heh. That's me. Once I tried to think about what female "feels like," I came up with....nothing. "Feminine," yes.

Fooking bizarre.