When do they know you? I mean, if you've been introduced, how are they supposed to know when it's okay to use the name they've been told?
I don't know; it varies. I think it's not so much the name itself but the tone. The level of familiarity implied. I'm hesitant to use other people's names when I've just met them too.
askye, yay! Glad you're better and it was worth it. Hope the new thing resolves easily.
When I was younger I got irritated at being called ma'am, but now I'm okay with it. I'd rather be respected than lusted after.
I'd rather be respected than lusted after.
I've never actually associated it with respect. Probably a lack of lust, but that's not the same thing.
For an example of why it doesn't ping me as an age thing, my aunt tells her granddaughter "No ma'am" when she does something naughty.
Drank ginger tea. Chatted with cute girl on OKC, there will likely be coffee. Bed now.
Katie, your stuff is beautiful. I wish I could see it in person.
Yay, askye! Have you taken some probitics? It could be your intestines protesting the lack of bacteria.
I dislike strangers calling me by my first name, but I have a last name that most people are unwilling tackle.
For an example of why it doesn't ping me as an age thing, my aunt tells her granddaughter "No ma'am" when she does something naughty.
Ha! I do the same with my dog! "NO SIR!" though.
I just emailed my parents and sister to see if they want to visit me. I could use some time away from math.
I work in a giant tower downtown.
Daisy Jane, how close are you to my new building? We should try and do lunch.
Also, I've entered the wild world of OK Cupid
:: wink wink :: Take a look at my profile. (maybe tell me what's wrong with it)
ETA- since moving to TX, I've been called "Sir" more in the past year, than the rest of my life combined. They are very polite down here.