Hil, I'm glad you're feeling better today. I hope Anne W. is too.
Mmm. Wife soup. I must've done good.
Wash ,'War Stories'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Nora Deirdre - Jan 26, 2010 4:39:51 am PST #7898 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)
Fred Pete - Jan 26, 2010 4:48:39 am PST #7899 of 30000
Ann, that's a ferret.
Kitty's job should just be to be a kitty.
Some kitties are very good at calming. I spent half of Sunday afternoon watching true crime TV with Coco snuggled in the crook of my arm. And if I'd been sitting up, Max would have been in my lap instead.
Very calming.
smonster - Jan 26, 2010 5:36:06 am PST #7900 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Shir, how ridiculous.
Slept a lot yesterday - a 3.5 hr nap and then again from 9 pm to 7 am. Still sick, but it's just a cold, so here I am.
Kitties are calming... unless they're being stressful.
Connie Neil - Jan 26, 2010 6:40:46 am PST #7901 of 30000
brillig
I am wedding etiquette challenged--what's the difference between "save the date" and an invitation? Is it a timeframe difference? And if you receive a "save the date", is it automatic that you're going to get an invitation?
§ ita § - Jan 26, 2010 6:42:29 am PST #7902 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Invitations tell you what time to show up, and where, and what to wear, and all those details. Save the date tells you when the nuptials will be held.
I can't see any reason you'd tell someone to block it out on their calendar if they weren't going to be invited.
brenda m - Jan 26, 2010 6:44:13 am PST #7903 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Yes and yes. The save the date typically goes out as soon as a date is confirmed, so that you can then take six months dithering over the design of the actual invitations (and location and details and such) without freaking too much.
I would be surprised (and find it pretty rude) to get a save the date without an invite to follow. (Almost used an acronym there but thought better of it, though I guess that would also be surprising and rude.)
Daisy Jane - Jan 26, 2010 6:45:08 am PST #7904 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
I'm working a half day today so I can go to the funeral this afternoon.
Today is just generally miserable.
I wish someone hadn't sent me the link to the story about my friend's kid. Giant picture when the page loads. Could've done without that.
I'm kinda hungry, but forgot to grab money and really shouldn't do lunch what with leaving early and all, and I'm not even sure what I'd want.
Can this day be over now?
brenda m - Jan 26, 2010 6:45:54 am PST #7905 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there
Ouch. I hope the day is, well, as non-awful as it can be, I guess.
Daisy Jane - Jan 26, 2010 6:46:55 am PST #7906 of 30000
"This bar smells like kerosene and stripper tears."
My boss did bring in yellow with chocolate frosted cupcakes this morning, so that didn't suck.
Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Jan 26, 2010 6:51:53 am PST #7907 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"
And if you receive a "save the date", is it automatic that you're going to get an invitation?
We've only sent them to people who will be getting invitations later.
DJ, wishing you an improving day from here on.