Zoe: I thought you wanted to spend more time off-ship this visit. Wash: Out there is seems like it's all fancy parties. I like our party better. The dress code is easier and I know all the steps.

'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Vortex - Jan 25, 2010 4:39:09 pm PST #7840 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Also, the underwear names are awesome. I like Priape and Candyman, but by fave by far is MANZONE. I hear it in this booming movie announcer voice, in asscaps: MANZONE. (Much like my favorite all-time men's cologne name: GRAVEL.)

My personal favorite so far (of the 638 underwear choices) is Male Power® D-Ring Rip Off Thong

The D-Ring Rip-Off Thong is a risqué look. Made with soft faux leather for the ultimate comfort, this thong has D-ring styling on the front for a bondage-inspired look. The front panel is removable for easy access.


Hil R. - Jan 25, 2010 4:39:21 pm PST #7841 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Kinda freaking out.

I hate stress.


javachik - Jan 25, 2010 4:40:18 pm PST #7842 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I've got 30% for non-retirement deductions. Is that about par for state, fed, FICA, health insurance, medicare, SS, etc?

Depends on which tax bracket you're in, but it's somewhere around there.


-t - Jan 25, 2010 4:44:10 pm PST #7843 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Jilli, vacuvin is your friend. Cork wine stoppers are okay for up to about a day, but they won't make a good seal unless they are very hard to get into the bottle. I have left opened bpttles and resealed them with a vacuvin and left them in the fridge for months with no ill effects.

Wish I could help, omnis, but that is the sort of thing I turn to Google for. 30% has always worked out to be a pretty good estimate for me, at least.


sj - Jan 25, 2010 4:44:25 pm PST #7844 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Anyway, what should I know about keeping an open bottle of wine good for a couple of days? I need bottle-stoppers, yes?

Bottle stoppers will help, and I read recently that all open wine should be kept in the fridge if you want it to stay good longer, even ones that you serve at room temperature.

ETA: We have also found that the bottles that come with the new rubber corks are easier to get back in a bottle for a tight seal.


Anne W. - Jan 25, 2010 4:55:26 pm PST #7845 of 30000
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.

Damn it. I called my mom hoping for some sympathy and reassurance about my back, but instead got called out on overreacting (for me) and focusing on a whole bunch of scary 'might have beens' for a lot longer than I would normally. In short, she knows me and my sublimating ways all too well.

To make a long story short, I've been a weepy mess for the past hour, and realizing that I need to (and don't want to) take a good hard look at why I have been unhappy at work for a while now and why I've been in denial about that.

Edit: And my back still hurts.


Hil R. - Jan 25, 2010 4:57:51 pm PST #7846 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Sorry, I don't really know what the answer is, omnis.

I do not like the job-search process. I do not understand it, either. And I'm stressed out, and I have two big things to do this year -- job and dissertation -- and both of them are kind of stalled right now, and I just want this to be over. And I want to go get some greasy comfort food, but the restaurant that I'm craving is a pain to get to from here.


-t - Jan 25, 2010 4:58:49 pm PST #7847 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

{{Anne}} Good luck with the looking hard. I never like that, but it feels good when it's over and you know what's what.


P.M. Marc - Jan 25, 2010 4:58:53 pm PST #7848 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

We love our VacuVin. Best thing EVER.


javachik - Jan 25, 2010 5:04:19 pm PST #7849 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

What a weird day. Good news at work (it's review time, and I got some inklings today on how that will go) but getting a bunch of emails from my BF that clearly demonstrate how lonely he is in Boston and how much he misses me, the dogs, California, etc. Oh CA 15% unemployment, how I detest you!!!

And I am having F2F withdrawal too, and am bummed that I didn't get to see more of bride and groom but at least they don't live too far away for visits.