Now hold on, I'm gonna press the right pedal harder. I expect us to accelerate.

Anya ,'Showtime'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Hil R. - Nov 17, 2009 5:41:04 am PST #770 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Happy birthday, Jilli!


Jessica - Nov 17, 2009 5:41:36 am PST #771 of 30000
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

I got a save-the-date last week for my tenth college reunion. Along with a request for money, which I threw away.


Polter-Cow - Nov 17, 2009 5:42:02 am PST #772 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

Congratulations, Nora!!

Happy birthday, Jilli!!


Stephanie - Nov 17, 2009 5:44:21 am PST #773 of 30000
Trust my rage

First, sumi, did you ever figure out the sciatica thing? I don't know if that is what is bothering, but I've hard a sort of ache and feeling of weakness in my left hip/butt. It goes away when I do the stretch Steph mentioned here (all I can remember is the dominatrix part, and not the actual name.)

Second,

But regardless of the more detailed debate, I think it's one of the best resources that disabled people have for arguing for change in society. Where the focus is mistakenly on us as 'wrong' or 'broken' individuals, we can argue that the biggest problems - the ones that can be prevented and fought against - are those that society imposes *on top of* our conditions or impairments.

I was just thinking about this topic this morning after a conversation I had with Joe. The Army is really struggling with soldiers with new, combat induced disabilities. The ones with physical injuries or clear mental issues seem to get treated (finally). No one really doubts the legitimacy of an injury. But the ones with mental issues that are severe enough to interfere with work but not enough to make them violent (or the ones that are seen as faking their injuries to get our of future deployments), well, the Army doesn't know what to do with them. Those soldiers are perceived as "broken". It's a huge part of Army culture. I don't want to say too much about Joe and his role in all this (um, as someone looking for solutions), but I'll be curious to see what others have to say about Seska's post.


brenda m - Nov 17, 2009 5:50:42 am PST #774 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I haven't had a chance to check out the links, but I remember a few years back (okay, like 15, since I think I was in Montreal at the time) when there was a lot of discussion and press around universal design, which I think is such an underused idea. That involves a focus on the built environment that acknowleges the potential advantages to everyone of incorporating accessibility into design from the get-go, rather than on ad hoc modifications to "fix" one person's needs.


Hil R. - Nov 17, 2009 6:01:24 am PST #775 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

when there was a lot of discussion and press around universal design, which I think is such an underused idea.

Extreme Makeover:Home Edition tends to use a lot of universal design concepts in the design of the main living areas of the houses they build, though I don't think I've ever heard them actually use that phrase. It's definitely what they're doing, though. It always surprises me a bit to see so much thought about how people use the space and how their needs might change put into the main living areas, while they continue to do stuff like built-in princess-themed furniture in a preschooler's room.

My absolute favorite easy yet useful Universal Design thing -- a kitchen with counters at different heights in different places. So some parts of the counter are the right height for an average-sized person standing up, other parts are designed for someone in a wheelchair, other parts are higher up and have stools to sit on, and so on. It accomodates a lot of different people, and it's visually much more interesting than a flat counter.


-t - Nov 17, 2009 6:05:10 am PST #776 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I got a save-the-date last week for my tenth college reunion. Along with a request for money, which I threw away.

Yeah, I got a "what do you want to do during your twentieth reunion weekend?" letter from my college, along with a request for money. That time of the year, I guess.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Nov 17, 2009 6:05:15 am PST #777 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

there was a lot of discussion and press around universal design, which I think is such an underused idea.

Totally. It can never be completely achieved (mainly because people with different impairments need different things - so crutch-users slip over on the raised bumps that are useful for blind people, in a small example). But it's a great concept that should be attempted more.

If The Girl and I can ever afford a place of our own, we want to install regular-height kitchen units that move down to wheelchair-user-height with a button-push. We've seen some, so we know this is possible. They weren't overwhelmingly affordable, but they weren't priced just for millionaire disabled people either.


Jessica - Nov 17, 2009 6:10:31 am PST #778 of 30000
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?

regular-height kitchen units that move down to wheelchair-user-height with a button-push.

Wow, that sounds really neat! And it would be great for households with kids, too.


Hil R. - Nov 17, 2009 6:15:10 am PST #779 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Seska, do you have Extreme Makeover: Home Edition in the UK? I've found it interesting to watch as I've been reading about the various models of disability and thoughts around it. (Basic premise of the show: they find families who have gone through some kind of trouble and, as a result, their house just isn't working for them anymore. The family gets sent on a vacation -- usually Disney World -- while the EM:HE team tears down the house and builds a new one that fits with the family's needs. They always hire a local contractor and other local building-business people, and get a few hundred volunteers from the local area to do the construction stuff that doesn't require as much specialized skill, and a lot of the furniture and appliances are donated by companies that get advertising by the camera taking a few dozen closeups of the labels.)

There have been several episodes featuring either police officers or soldiers who were injured in duty and now had to use a wheelchair, but were still living in a house with the bedrooms up a flight of stairs and hallways too narrow to maneuver in a wheelchair. The last episode I watched, the father had been paralyzed from the waist down, and at the beginning, he was talking about how much he wanted to play with his kids and put the baby to bed and stuff like that. The show put in a playground set in their backyard that was arranged so that he could roll his wheelchair around it and really interact with the kids while they were running around and playing, and a crib for the baby with doors that opened on the side so that he could put the baby in and out of the crib without having to reach over the side rail.