I may be love's bitch, but at least I'm man enough to admit it.

Spike ,'Sleeper'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


P.M. Marc - Jan 12, 2010 6:51:34 am PST #6527 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Chiming in late to say it's perfectly normal. I was an early reader, so I had no real clue what was the normal curve until I researched it.

At Lillian's age, I had books with chapters and no pictures about which I was really excited. I guess I figured that at 4, most kids were reading picture books, but not yet novels. Which is not the case.

Lillian's right where she should be. She can spell a few words, and sound a few out, and has what feels like dozens of books memorized, but she's not reading yet, and I have to look at reality to stop my freak outs.

Owen's reading level is freakish. I'm proud of it but it is also hard to keep him interested in what the rest of the class is doing. And his social development is way behind.

I almost failed out of kindergarten because of the above! But I turned out mostly okay. And while I wouldn't say my social development ever caught up, or will ever be normal, I learned to cope and deal with *way* less official support and structure than the O man, so he's gonna turn out AWESOME.


Lee - Jan 12, 2010 7:08:06 am PST #6528 of 30000
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Joining Plei in the lateness to say that I didn't start reading much until I was about 6, and then one day it just clicked.


Vortex - Jan 12, 2010 7:10:14 am PST #6529 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

My brother taught me to read when I was 4 or 5 (sometime before kindergarten). No one knows how (including he or I). He was tired of me asking him to read to me, so he taught me how to read so that I would leave him alone.


Calli - Jan 12, 2010 7:15:24 am PST #6530 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm glad they diagnosed the problem, askye. Good luck with the drink changes. Diet Dr. Pepper has caffeine, I believe, so it looks like you're being treated by Dr. Do as I Say, Not What I Do. But as long as he makes the infection/pain go away, whatevs.


WindSparrow - Jan 12, 2010 7:30:33 am PST #6531 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

I distinctly remember mastering "sound it out" in second grade, and being squarely middle-of-the-pack in my split 2nd-3rd grade class. In kindergarten, I had letters and numbers (although I also distinctly remember my dad taking pains over teaching me to recognize the difference between lower-case d and b) and could recognize short simple words such as the, and, is, etc.


Kate P. - Jan 12, 2010 7:45:56 am PST #6532 of 30000
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love

Askye, I'm so glad they've figured it out, and I hope the meds treat you OK! I have also gotten in the habit of taking cranberry pills, after a few UTIs last year, and haven't had an infection since.

I would think iced herbal tea would be fine, probably? As long as there's no caffeine or carbonation. I also had to give up caffeine for a while last year, but never had any problems with herbal tea.


juliana - Jan 12, 2010 7:56:37 am PST #6533 of 30000
I’d be lying if I didn’t say that I miss them all tonight…

My brother taught me to read when I was 4 or 5 (sometime before kindergarten). No one knows how (including he or I). He was tired of me asking him to read to me, so he taught me how to read so that I would leave him alone.

Heh. I taught myself how to read at 4 because I was bored (my sister was gravely ill, my parents were understandably distracted). Which led to me getting "The Secret Garden" as a gift that Christmas from one grandmother, and the other grandmother (who hadn't spent much time with me) freaking out about how I was too young to have a non-picture book, and then being flabbergasted at me reading the first chapter to her.


Steph L. - Jan 12, 2010 8:02:38 am PST #6534 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Steph-- What kind of pain did you have that was tendon related (so I have an idea of what to look out for).

Not to be coy, but you'll know it if you have it. My achilles tendons had a constant, dull, moderately severe ache for about 3 weeks. My jaw ached constantly like it does after going to the dentist and having to hold your mouth open for hours. Any area that has tendons is fair game, and if you start having any kind of pain in or around your tendons that wasn't there before, stop the antibiotic and call your doctor. It can fuck you up big time, and there are lots of other antibiotics that won't rupture your tendons.

FYI: Cipro and Avelox are in the same class and can do the same thing, so switching to either one of those won't help.

Those drugs are powerful and fairly broad-spectrum, and it sounds like that's exactly what your infection needs, since it's been going on for so long. Just keep an eye out for any new pain.


-t - Jan 12, 2010 8:03:11 am PST #6535 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

My brother taught me to read when I was 4 or 5 (sometime before kindergarten). No one knows how (including he or I). He was tired of me asking him to read to me, so he taught me how to read so that I would leave him alone.

My exact experience.


Polter-Cow - Jan 12, 2010 8:04:08 am PST #6536 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

All I know about my reading is that I was apparently reading the newspaper at age seven, but that does not appear to be a mean feat in these parts.