Giles: I jump out of the circle, jump back in, and, and, shake my gourd. Buffy: Hey, I think I know this ritual. The ancient shamans were next called upon to do the Hokey-Pokey and to turn themselves around.

'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Dec 30, 2009 6:53:42 am PST #5244 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

t brings her FB to Bitches randomly

I'm singing!!
I'm in a store and I'm siiiiiingiiiiing!!
I'm in a store and I'm siiiiiingiiiiing!


Steph L. - Dec 30, 2009 6:55:30 am PST #5245 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Within the first 200 posts, Teppy is waxing rapturous on the subject of the semicolon.

It's a classic for a reason!

smonster, get the dress!

I called work this morning and said I'd be in late, since The Cold That Won't Die seems to have backslid into Damn, I Feel Like Death On Toast. So I'm eating banana bread on the couch and waiting for my hair to be dry, and then I'll go in, like the good worker bee I am. (Actually, very few people are there today, and we [meaning *I*] sent the journal to the printer yesterday, so if any problems arise, no one who's there is capable of handling it. Most likely there will be no problems, but I'm paranoid, since today is the last day before a 4-day weekend, and if I'm not there and a problem arises, then it would be delayed until next week.)

(How's that for a parenthetical?)


Scrappy - Dec 30, 2009 6:59:28 am PST #5246 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Excellent parenthetical, Teppy!

I have a hivemind question. We recently spent time with a friend who announced that he had finally been diagnosed as bipolar and was now getting treated. This is great, of course, but his behavior was incredibly manic--he could not sit still, he talked a mile a minute about stuff like "writing a short story in three hours" and he was super-intense. Could this manic state be part of getting his meds adjusted or should we be worried?


omnis_audis - Dec 30, 2009 7:07:57 am PST #5247 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Hil, great news. I'm confident between now and the 11th, another interview will pop up. Your gonna take that math conference by storm!

Shir, sorry to hear the ick has caught you. When I was in school, it always waited until I was on break. Great way to spend holiday, sick. Get well soon.

Seska, enjoy the sites. Hopefully the wine will smooth things out.

There was more. Can't recall. Tired. And a bit nervous about this upcoming week. Oy. Musical. HUGE musical. Big load in. Eating way too much time and mental energy.


Cashmere - Dec 30, 2009 7:08:08 am PST #5248 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.

It could take a while for the meds to balance him out, Scrappy. In my case, I did get a dosage of antidepressant that pushed me over the edge into mania. Which took a bit of time to sort out.

Each individual has to figure out their chemistry with their doctor. I think if the depressive episodes are really debilitating, having a bit of mania is sometimes a pleasant experience. The time to worry would be if the manias tipped into troublesome behaviors. Productivity is one thing--risky behavior is another (e.g. overspending, gambling, risky sexual behavior, etc.).


omnis_audis - Dec 30, 2009 7:11:12 am PST #5249 of 30000
omnis, pursue. That's an order from a shy woman who can use M-16. - Shir

Oh yes, I remember. GC, good to hear you have a lactation specialist. My old work mate is married to one, apparently really good, as she was being woo'd by OC children hospital. I think she works out of one in Long Beach. If you need her info, drop me a line. While it might be tiring and frustrating, it still is a miracle and bundle of joy. Try not to focus on the bumps in the road, but enjoy every beautiful moment of the journey.


SailAweigh - Dec 30, 2009 7:13:15 am PST #5250 of 30000
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Chipping in to agree with Cash, Scrappy. It can take a while for the meds to do their job properly and a bit of tweaking may be necessary even after one to years of meds as the body get used to them.


smonster - Dec 30, 2009 7:21:35 am PST #5251 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I also support what Cash says. Also, it may take years to find a cocktail that works. Being diagnosed is only the first step. Depending on how close you are with this friend, you could ask him if he would like feedback from you on how depressive/manic he seems. Sometimes it's hard to monitor from inside, and as Cash points out, mania can be FUN.


Steph L. - Dec 30, 2009 7:28:23 am PST #5252 of 30000
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Okay, this is amusing. I check my bank account/credit card online a few times a week, because I'm paranoid about identity theft. So, I'm looking through the (long) list of credit card purchases* when I see a credit back to my account of $25. I didn't return anything for credit, and the transaction description was "New Card Offer." Didn't say who the merchant/source of money was.

So I was a little suspicious. I called my bank, and the woman asked me if I had signed up -- with them -- for a promo where, if you spent a certain amount of $$ during December, you received a $25 credit. I said that I honestly didn't remember signing up, but that in the business of the holidays, I probably did and forgot. I said that it probably sounded silly for me to be questioning a credit, like, No, I don't WANT free money!, but I just wanted to be sure.

She said that it was from the bank, and it was legit. So, right on!

*(I switched to a credit card that offers reward points. So I'm using it for everything, but treating my transactions as if I used my *debit* card -- that is, I enter them in my check register so that everything I buy with the credit card already has the $$ to pay for it. Then when it comes due, I cancel out the transactions in the check register, which bumps my available balance back up, and then I use that amount to pay the whole CC balance.)

(That's probably not a revelation to anyone but me, but when I thought of it, I was tickled by my soooooper-genius.)

Okay, going to work now.


Polter-Cow - Dec 30, 2009 7:39:13 am PST #5253 of 30000
What else besides ramen can you scoop? YOU CAN SCOOP THIS WORLD FROM DARKNESS!

I check my bank account/credit card online a few times a week, because I'm paranoid about identity theft.

Heeeey, it's like we're the same person.

(That's probably not a revelation to anyone but me, but when I thought of it, I was tickled by my soooooper-genius.)

I don't have any system like that; I just pay my balance in full each month. Which is another reason I obsessively check my credit card statement all the time: to make sure I'm not spending too much in a given month (or if I am, that it was balanced out by underspending the previous month).