Every nightmare I have that doesn't revolve around academic failure or public nudity is about that thing. In fact, once I dreamt that it attacked me while I was late for a test and naked.

Willow ,'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

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Aims - Aug 16, 2010 10:22:17 am PDT #28711 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Shit. I wrote a big ole comment, but hopefully it's not too shit stirring. I will delete it if you want, Amy.


amyth - Aug 16, 2010 10:30:05 am PDT #28712 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

Nah, that's all right. :) It needed to be said.

Amys/Aimees have each other's backs!


Aims - Aug 16, 2010 10:30:33 am PDT #28713 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

We do, indeed!!

Seriously - if you want me to delete it, I totally will.


beth b - Aug 16, 2010 10:37:00 am PDT #28714 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I'm sorry amyth. I just read through things - I think yo were unfriended not because of you, but because of the number of people that agreed with you .

I know I am always surprised when many people disagree with me. But i consider it a wake up call for me - not rude. I hope things smooth over


erikaj - Aug 16, 2010 10:37:22 am PDT #28715 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

In actuality, there hasn't been any drama on my facebook, except that one of my old crushes continues to be a.cute. and 2. Otherwise engaged(possibly literally.... this time, I think he found The Right One, at least. Dude, if you're not going to put out, you're under no obligation to find me amusing. I don't know whether to be glad, or Larry David-style, think 200 people are all ignoring me at once.


amyth - Aug 16, 2010 10:38:15 am PDT #28716 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

No. Leave it! Reallyreally!


Aims - Aug 16, 2010 10:41:31 am PDT #28717 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

The amyth hath spoketh!


brenda m - Aug 16, 2010 10:41:48 am PDT #28718 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

My facebook just reinforces what a complete liberal bubble I live in. And I am a-okay with that. I get enough of the other side from comments on blog posts.


amyth - Aug 16, 2010 10:43:36 am PDT #28719 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

My friend has assured me that things with his mom will blow over. He should know.

True story: he posted on Facebook that he was canvassing door-to-door with me for Obama before the election, and she threatened to disown him. On Facebook. We've been joking about that ever since. So he's probably right that this is ultimately no big deal.

I never really had to deal with my parents as adults, and my relationships with my de facto parental figures is often fairly polite and surface-level. Having an adult relationship with parents is a pain in the ass, sometimes. I had to figure a bunch of stuff out for myself, and screwed a lot of it up along the way, but now that I'm almost 39, I like the quiet.


Aims - Aug 16, 2010 10:44:23 am PDT #28720 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

And amyth - if it makes you feel any better, a dude who grew up with my mom and uncles (two doors down from them) and whose parents I considered another set of grandparents de-friended me because I thought it was fine for President Obama to be in Chicago for Memorial Day. You might remember him from saying things like, "Your grandfather would not agree." and "Your grandfather would be disappointed."

Differing opinions. Everyone gets to have one.