Oh, but I don't really want to go.
Then you absolutely should not go. Go for "I am not going" as your explaination.
'Selfless'
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Oh, but I don't really want to go.
Then you absolutely should not go. Go for "I am not going" as your explaination.
w00t!!!! Hil, way to GO!
Woohoo Hil!
DR HIL!!
YAY HIL!
Congratulations, Hil!
Yay, Hil! Go forth and rock the new job!
edit: And go kick your advisor!
As my fake security boyfriend Gavin de Becker says "No," is a complete sentence. Of course, this is probably easier to enforce when one's parents are smackhead criminals and you can almost literally kill people with your brain. But...
P-C, if you don't want to go, don't go.
Hooray for Hil!!!