I really want to learn to sew as well.
Ditto.
Love isn't brains, children, it's blood, blood screaming inside you to work its will.
Spike ,'Sleeper'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
EpicTangent - Dec 04, 2009 1:44:59 pm PST #2395 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
smonster - Dec 04, 2009 3:10:17 pm PST #2396 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.
Well. It's done. Via email. Go on, judge me.
See, what happened was KBD asked me last night on the phone if everything was okay, and I am a shitty liar and hate doing it so we got into it for three hours (until 2 am). Me flat out telling him I didn't love him didn't seem to phase him. I spent today miserable and confused but with the help of some very good friends and helpful DBT skills, I got clear.
And since in person didn't work, and phone didn't work, email it was.
Given that he's tried to call me twice in the five minutes since I sent the email, after I specifically asked for three days of radio silence, I think I made the right decision.
Atropa - Dec 04, 2009 3:12:43 pm PST #2397 of 30000
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.
hugs smonster tight
§ ita § - Dec 04, 2009 3:12:54 pm PST #2398 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.
Ugh. I can understand not wanting a relationship to end, if you don't think the bad is that bad. But you do have to respect the other person's right to, well, be that other person. And if they don't want a relationship, how good a one can you make out of that?
I'm sorry you had a terrible day, smonster.
Anne W. - Dec 04, 2009 3:13:38 pm PST #2399 of 30000
The lost sheep grow teeth, forsake their lambs, and lie with the lions.
{{{smonster}}}
Steph L. - Dec 04, 2009 3:13:53 pm PST #2400 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
Go on, judge me.
I judge that you made the right choice. And good for you. Seriously.
-t - Dec 04, 2009 3:17:24 pm PST #2401 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
{{smonster}} I don't like to judge, but I will say that the degree of difficulty on this maneuver should significantly raise your score.
Trudy Booth - Dec 04, 2009 3:18:24 pm PST #2402 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart
bites smonster
(What? It's not like we're consoling someone in Natter.)
Glamcookie - Dec 04, 2009 3:18:29 pm PST #2403 of 30000
I know my own heart and understand my fellow man. But I am made unlike anyone I have ever met. I dare to say I am like no one in the whole world. - Anne Lister
{{{smonster}}} Hope you're feeling better about things in short order.
Cass - Dec 04, 2009 3:24:50 pm PST #2404 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.
Go you, smonster. I shall hug and nom you.