Whatever happened to the still beating heart of a virgin? No one has any standards anymore.

Giles ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Aims - Jun 18, 2010 3:56:34 am PDT #23039 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

P-C -- what everyone said about your sister and the email. It's a load of bullshit, typewritten manipulation of the worst kind. I don't know if you're looking for how to respond but if you do, remember to use "I" statements.

And sadly, as I found out, "I was wondering what the FUCK is wrong with you?" does not count.


billytea - Jun 18, 2010 4:01:33 am PDT #23040 of 30000
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

And sadly, as I found out, "I was wondering what the FUCK is wrong with you?" does not count.

You need to put the statement in terms of your feelings, such as "I feel terribly confused when I can't work out what the FUCK is wrong with you."


Aims - Jun 18, 2010 4:03:19 am PDT #23041 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Yeah, that didn't go over either.


smonster - Jun 18, 2010 4:03:25 am PDT #23042 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Oh, James Franco. WTF. He's got an art exhibition. [link]

Another work explores a romantic encounter between "Star Trek" characters Spock and James T. Kirk.


lisah - Jun 18, 2010 4:33:06 am PDT #23043 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Oh, James Franco. WTF. He's got an art exhibition.

Oh, yeah, he applied to the grad program at Maryland Institute College of Art this year! He got in, actually, but decided he wanted to pursue some other program at, possibly, Yale?


Toddson - Jun 18, 2010 4:56:36 am PDT #23044 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

P-C, I'm sorry you're going through this. And I find what you're going through very much like what I went through with my family. It sounds like the relationships were similar.

Assuming that, I have two things to tell you. First, you're never going to satisfy them. Whatever you do, however much you give, they'll find fault. If you met their every demand, if you anticipated their wishes and fulfilled them, they'd still find something to criticize. That's the bad news. The good news is that it has nothing to do with you. It's them. They want something that doesn't - can't - exist. They don't understand that their demands are unreasonable, all they know is that they want something and they're looking to you to fill their needs.

So I'll repeat what everyone here has been telling you. You're a good person, a good friend and, in spite of what you're being told, a good son. Do what your heart tells you is right for you and, as much as possible, for your family. Take care of yourself emotionally and physically.


sj - Jun 18, 2010 5:08:49 am PDT #23045 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{{{P-C}}}}} I'm sorry your sister is piling on to the guilt trip. Stay strong.

I need to stop panicking and start getting stuff done. I really don't think I can handle this upcoming weekend. The house is still a mess, and I still feel like crap.


Hil R. - Jun 18, 2010 5:12:31 am PDT #23046 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I just got into my office and checked my messages, and I've got another phone interview. This one is for a job in Savannah.


smonster - Jun 18, 2010 5:16:35 am PDT #23047 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Ooohh, Savannah! 3rd oldest Reform Congregation in the US at Mickve Israel, which is a lovely Gothic synagogue right in downtown. My grandmother used to be a docent there.


smonster - Jun 18, 2010 5:17:51 am PDT #23048 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Excuse me, 3rd oldest Jewish congregation in US period. [link] (caution for autoplay video)

eta ahaha they have "Shalom, y'all" merch. >[link]