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smonster - Jun 17, 2010 7:05:36 am PDT #22927 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Random pet peeve - people who open a door and don't check to see if anyone's behind them and needs it held. RUDE.

And another - we just got a new voicemail system and now there aren't "new" messages, there are "unread" messages. WTFF?


Volans - Jun 17, 2010 7:08:56 am PDT #22928 of 30000
move out and draw fire

Happy birthday, Cass!


beekaytee - Jun 17, 2010 7:11:03 am PDT #22929 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Really you need to consider yourself to be part of traffic and take your lane. Unfortunately too many drivers are ignorant of the fact that bicyclists have the right to do this.

This is the thing. And here I go sounding like my grandmother but really, when I was young, we were taught that a bicycle is a vehicle and must adhere to the appropriate laws and behaviors.

I want to sue for breach of the social contract.

I swear, we are all going to hell in a flaming handbasket...but then, Nature willl win, so shrug.


Shir - Jun 17, 2010 7:16:27 am PDT #22930 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Connie, I'm sorry to hear about the accident.

Happy birthdays to Cass and to everyone else I've missed!

It took a certain someone in the end of one of my classes today a while to let go of my presence. About 30 minutes, to be exact, of "wait, where are you going now? Come with us! Stick around for a little bit longer!", as if I'm a kind of a safety blanket. I don't think he wants me or anything like it, but I was all melt by the "awww, he must be really liking me!" feeling. So yeah, yay for good guys, too.

BTW - if anyone here doesn't know, here is my Twitter account: [link] I'll still update there during the great gray-out.


Toddson - Jun 17, 2010 7:17:41 am PDT #22931 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

What scares me - not for myself - are the parents who are bicycling in rush hour traffic with a child in a little trailer thing hitched to the back of their cycle. The kid's invisible to drivers. argh


Vortex - Jun 17, 2010 7:21:11 am PDT #22932 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Random pet peeve - people who open a door and don't check to see if anyone's behind them and needs it held. RUDE.

also, when you hold the door for someone and they just walk through without touching the door, forcing you to stand there while they continue on their way.


lisah - Jun 17, 2010 7:22:43 am PDT #22933 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

are the parents who are bicycling in rush hour traffic with a child in a little trailer thing hitched to the back of their cycle.

Oh man, I was on a trail in DC and this woman had her kid attached to the back of her bike with, like, the equivalent of a bungie cord and the kid was weaving all over the trail. And there were a million people on it AND the mom had saddle bags on her bike so she couldn't see him at all. NIGHTMARE! I've never been so glad to pass someone in my life. Once I had a chance to which was after we went over a footbridge with me right behind that scenario. Good thing I can ride my bike at approx .2 miles per hour.


beekaytee - Jun 17, 2010 7:28:51 am PDT #22934 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

Once, on the Mount Vernon Trail, I came around a blind corner, up a steep incline that required significant speed. Right there, in the middle of the trail was a wee one, perhaps 3 years old, stopped.

Not sure if it was shoelaces, or what, but I had to veer off the trail, bump over some rocks and nearly lose my saddle to avoid him.

When I looked back in shock and suggested that the dad move the kid off the trail, he screamed "Mind your own business." I fear I fairly shrieked, "It WOULD be my business if I'd just killed him!" I wish I'd added some profanity, but I was so shocked and relieved, it was all I could do to make my legs move again.


Typo Boy - Jun 17, 2010 7:34:24 am PDT #22935 of 30000
Calli: My people have a saying. A man who trusts can never be betrayed, only mistaken.Avon: Life expectancy among your people must be extremely short.

Hi Shir. Will miss you. In terms of boycott. I've struggled over the years with the point you are making. But you know the U.S. has given Israel as close to unconditional support as one nation every gets from another. And Israel's policy has not improved. Also if U.S. pressure is going to be applied it will have to be private, because the U.S. government is not going to put pressure on in the near future. At most, it will wag a finger and say "you Rascal" when Israel does something especially egregious. I know that there is natural feeling by its citizens that Israel should be left alone, and eventually things will work out. But what Israel does affects the whole Middle East, which has a certain importance to every nation in the world that uses oil. So it really has no moral claim to be left completely alone. And as I said, in a practical sense, non-interference (or interference only on the side whoever is in power in Israel) has not exactly worked out well. If Israel really wants to be left alone, I'd be for that - as long as it includes an end to all aid to Israel, and end to U.S. veto of resolutions in the Security Council that affect Israel, an end to purchase of Israeli military, intelligence and security products and an end to the sale or gift of such products to Israel.

Given that is not in the works, I think private boycotts are really comparatively mild. And the definition of madness is to keep doing the same thing and expecting different results. People outside Israel need to change the way we deal with Israel. And I doubt there is any we can do that that won't seem shocking at first to the citizens of Israel. Bishop Tutu says your system is worse than South African apartheid, as does Nelson Mandela. I'd say they are in a position to know. So, some of the tools that helped end apartheid had to at least be seriously considered.


WindSparrow - Jun 17, 2010 8:15:25 am PDT #22936 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Connie, what a scary, horrible thing to have to see.