I told The Boy this weekend that we need to get married so that we can send out save-the-date cards like these: [link].

Oh! They were just featured on offbeat bride! And they got married just up the harbor from where we are. Our Save the Dates won't be quite so clever but I still love them!

The first official asker was psycho ex 2.0. Never trust a serial engagement person.

The next asker was probably the husband of the woman I was dating, but that was more of a business plan like suggestion for group marriage and how it would work out by rotating official spouses. And, just. No.

(I'd have married her, though.)

That save-the-date site was blocked by my work filters because of Violence. I wonder about our filters, sometimes.

I married the first guy who asked, but I don't think I've ever thought of it that way. I always saw it as marrying the only man I ever wanted to.

I married the first guy who asked, but I don't think I've ever thought of it that way. I always saw it as marrying the only man I ever wanted to.

Exactly.

And maybe *I'll* ask.

And maybe *I'll* ask.

Go for it!

I married the first guy who asked, but I don't think I've ever thought of it that way. I always saw it as marrying the only man I ever wanted to.

Likewise.

I think I talked marriage with a few ex boyfriends, but I never seriously entertained the idea with anyone other than DH. DH thinks it is weird that the only relationship I had over 6 months was with him, but I knew the other ones weren't long term.

The first guy I asked gave me a bloody nose. But that was kindergarten and wouldn't have been, you know, legal.

The second guy I asked said "yes." I should have waited to be asked and then I should have said "no." Ah, well.

I married the first guy who asked, but I don't think I've ever thought of it that way. I always saw it as marrying the only man I ever wanted to.

Me too.