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Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


JZ - May 22, 2010 4:54:20 pm PDT #20135 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

sj, depression exacerbation and work drama feeding into each other - the lousier things are at work, the more depressed I am, and the more depressed I am, the less competent I am and the lousier things are at work (with the delightful gift with purchase of increasing depression making me even more stuck and less able to do the necessary new-job-hunting). And it all makes me feel especially wrathful toward people in positions of power who are professionally shitty to their underlings, hence the desire to cockpunch Hil's advisor.

When I finally regain my equilibrium and will to live and general pleasure in existence, I'm going to owe everyone a huge debt of gratitude and apology and I don't even know what. I know it's been a rough, grinding past few months for all the Buffistas, with everything from job woes to shitty advisors to physical ills and family members in the hospital and having a beloved pet trapped in the red zone of a goddamn national revolution, and I'm having a terrible time crawling out of this hole and giving the attention and love and comfort everyone deserves. I read and read and read, and feel for everyone, and then just sink into this frozen "can't say anything, can't write anything, can't do anything" state. It'll get better, eventually; it's just utter crap right now.

eta: {{{{{Sean}}}}} Even as crappy as I feel, I'd take on all of your own crap feeling for you if I could. You're such a ridiculously good person; whatever you're feeling and whatever is going on, I can utterly guarantee you deserve a million, million times better.


Sean K - May 22, 2010 4:56:02 pm PDT #20136 of 30000
You can't leave me to my own devices; my devices are Nap and Eat. -Zenkitty

{{{{{{{JZ}}}}}}}


sj - May 22, 2010 4:56:34 pm PDT #20137 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{{{JZ}}}}} I'm so sorry. I hate that depression cycle. It can feel so difficult to try to break it. If there is anything I can do, let me know.

I really wish the universe would lay off my people.


Hil R. - May 22, 2010 4:57:12 pm PDT #20138 of 30000
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

{{{JZ}}}

{{{Sean}}}


Calli - May 22, 2010 5:18:47 pm PDT #20139 of 30000
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I'm sorry, Sean and JZ.


Zenkitty - May 22, 2010 5:25:50 pm PDT #20140 of 30000
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Hugs for JZ and Sean, you are both wonderful people, don't let your brains tell you otherwise.

Good luck dealing with your insane advisor, Hil. I admire your restraint, I would have lost my temper with him long ago.


Laga - May 22, 2010 5:45:29 pm PDT #20141 of 30000
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

{{{Sean}}} {{{JZ}}}


Beverly - May 22, 2010 5:46:49 pm PDT #20142 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Sending miles of good thoughts to Sean and JZ, two wonderful people who have always gone the extra distance to be kind and supportive of friends in need. Candle lit for each of you, just so you know someone's bending energy on better for both of you.

edited to remove the ssssinissster ssssibilant


P.M. Marc - May 22, 2010 5:49:27 pm PDT #20143 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

JZ and Sean, I wish I could wave the magic brainfix wand and make it all better.


NoiseDesign - May 22, 2010 5:56:55 pm PDT #20144 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

Sean you are one of the best humans I know, truly.