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Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

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smonster - Nov 28, 2009 4:53:15 pm PST #1897 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Hello. Funeral was lovely and I'm doing fine. It was good to see all my cousins together again, it had been a long time. I will say this: funerals are weird, yo.

She was buried in Bonaventure Cemetary, which is very old (and was featured in The Book). After we buried Grandma, we went over to the Jewish side and found some relatives' graves. It's a gorgeous place, Bonaventure. Huge oaks dripping with Spanish moss, etc.

There was the traditional food orgy after. Everyone's gone now and we're watching the UGA-Tech game. My mom is complaining b/c it's halftime and they aren't showing the band. You can guess from that how often my fam watches football.


Tom Scola - Nov 28, 2009 4:55:28 pm PST #1898 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

(((smonster)))


amych - Nov 28, 2009 4:57:10 pm PST #1899 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

The Book = Midnight in the Garden of OMGWTFY'all?


beth b - Nov 28, 2009 5:04:10 pm PST #1900 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Funerals are just odd. You are hanging in an interestig place


smonster - Nov 28, 2009 5:12:06 pm PST #1901 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Yay, Scola hug!

Amych, yep.

At the funeral home, my grandpa was cracking jokes about winking at Pie and her too shy to wink back. Wee cousins were running around, keeping the mood from being too somber. Stoopid preacher kept calling her Marjorie - nobody called her that. Back at the house Grandpa put on Nat King Cole and started crying.

Ahh. Anyway. Enough vignettes. She loved and was loved and she will be missed.

I really appreciate all of your support.

i eta here's a representative pic of the cemetary. [link]


amych - Nov 28, 2009 5:19:17 pm PST #1902 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

{{{smonster}}} it sounds like she had quite a sendoff, preacher aside. My love to you all.


Trudy Booth - Nov 28, 2009 5:27:20 pm PST #1903 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Stoopid preacher kept calling her Marjorie - nobody called her that.

Stoopid priest called my Aunt Jean "Eugenia" fifteen years ago and its still vivid. For everyone.

The everyone, of course, is the important part. I'm glad you have your everyone.


beth b - Nov 28, 2009 5:34:38 pm PST #1904 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

Trudy is right, 'everyone' is the important part. Glad so many could get together.


WindSparrow - Nov 28, 2009 5:51:19 pm PST #1905 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

That's a whole lot of Spanish moss, smonster. I haven't seen that much since my last visit to my grandmother's farm in Florida (more than 20 years ago). I'm glad you are doing ok. It's amazing how the little ones make things better, just by running around the way kids do. Many hugs for you.


DCJensen - Nov 28, 2009 8:34:16 pm PST #1906 of 30000
All is well that ends in pizza.

At my dad's funeral, his mother's maiden name, Wang, was pronounced not like the Norwegian "vung" but like the way it looks. Despite the preacher being coached.

It, too is remembered.