This here's a recipe for unpleasantness.

Mal ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Seska (the Watcher-in-Training) - Apr 18, 2010 5:18:38 am PDT #16411 of 30000
"We're all stories, in the end. Just make it a good one, eh?"

Shir! Huge congrats! Is this your project on media reporting of conflict (hope I've remembered that correctly)?

Happy birthday Beth :)


beekaytee - Apr 18, 2010 5:45:45 am PDT #16412 of 30000
Compassionately intolerant

smonster, thanks for the gloss recommendation. I'll check out Black Honey this afternoon.

I don't have your email yet...I'll check to make sure I changed my profile addy when I dropped verizon...but it should still be the good onebox account.

Right out of the box, I'm going to say that Ginger is lovely and would be easier in terms of training, but if the shelter has the breed mix right (which is not always the case, for sure) I'd vote for Francis over her. The Chow/Lab mix might be a "my person and no one else" kind of girl, which is nice in some ways, but not good for socialization. I'm reading between the lines of the 'likes to chase cats' as a life of stress for your kitties. Not fun for them and probably frustrating for Ginger.

More later!


beth b - Apr 18, 2010 6:20:02 am PDT #16413 of 30000
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

thanks for the birthday wishes

yay of you , Shir


smonster - Apr 18, 2010 6:44:00 am PDT #16414 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Happy Birthday, beth!

Congrats, Shir!

Uggh. Didn't get to sleep until four and woke up to a text from my sister that one of her childhood frenemies has died, apparently of melanoma. At 28. So it's sad but...

Talking about the dog thing again, sis suggested I look into fostering Frankie. Yes, I immediately nicknamed him Frankie. Something to consider.


Shir - Apr 18, 2010 6:48:20 am PDT #16415 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Is this your project on media reporting of conflict (hope I've remembered that correctly)?

Kind of. It's about what constructed as truth in photography of "victory", "defeat", "pain", "other lofty made up human concepts", etc.. In an era of Photoshop and cell phone camera, and on which we know that most of the famous pictures were manipulated (and yet that doesn't make them any less strong nor meaningful), what is a good picture to be considered as proof to the reported events? What's the process that's happening for this meaning to be given to a picture? And that's without even saying a thing about taking a picture from a very specific angle, by gifted photographers - what makes them so gifted in capturing reality? And last, most importantly, I'm following the footsteps of the great John Tagg, by asking on which circumstances will a picture of the Loch Ness monster be considered as evidence to its existence?

I'd really like it to be specifically on war and peace photography, but I'll have to let the field to dictate me on this.


Shir - Apr 18, 2010 6:49:42 am PDT #16416 of 30000
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Sorry about your sister's friend, smonster.


WindSparrow - Apr 18, 2010 6:53:59 am PDT #16417 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Wow, Shir, that sounds like a challenging project. It's great that you have gotten further with it than you expected.


smonster - Apr 18, 2010 6:57:34 am PDT #16418 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Thank you, Shir. They hadn't been friends in a long time, and when they were A. was very cruel to my sister. So it's more just feeling sad for her family and that she died so young.


Beverly - Apr 18, 2010 7:51:22 am PDT #16419 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Birthday Felicitations, Beth! I wish you a year ahead of good food, good friends, and good music!

smonster, I'm no expert, but a lifetime of pet-owning and observance suggests that bonny's probably right. Ginger looks like a love, but the chow in the mix would worry me around your cats. Frankie might be the better option.

Bonny, I would kill maimuse harsh language for your bone structure. You clearly don't need makeup to look fabulous. I do understand the wish for a little color and polish. I'll second Scrappy's suggestion for tinted moisturizer and powder, with a quarter turn. I use regular moisturizer and mineral powder foundation. It does even out my skin tones, and doesn't melt into lines the way even good liquid foundation can do. It has better staying power on a warm day, as well. I use an eyebrow pencil to fill in where mine are sparse, pencil eyeliner, with dark powder shadow smudged over the line to both soften and "set" the pencil line. The same pencil in the crease, smudged with a fingertip to give me the fabulous definition you have naturally. And powder blush stroked on the apple of the cheek toward the hairline, and on the upper lid under the arch of the brow.

I second the notion of colored gloss. Or a lipstick you like slicked with clear gloss. You'll be gorgeous-er than you already are.


Beverly - Apr 18, 2010 7:53:35 am PDT #16420 of 30000
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

My condolences to your sister, smonster. Losing even a frenemy at so young an age is difficult.