You always think harder is better. Maybe next time I patrol, I should carry bricks and use a stake made out of butter.

Buffy ,'The Killer In Me'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

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amych - Apr 07, 2010 7:39:42 am PDT #15088 of 30000
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

My one criticism of NC though is that it *really matters* where you are because it varies *a lot*.

Yep yep yep yep. And there are a lot of places that are good, not just the Triangle -- the coast is lovely and really different from a lot of other beachy places, not to mention the rest of the state. The mountains are gorgeous. The Triangle has mega-brains and culture and art and an amazing food scene -- and even within those regions, every individual town has a really, really different feel to it. There's really no "I'm an hour away from the town I really want to live in and that's close enough" -- if you're an hour away, it's a completely different life. Even Carrboro and Chapel Hill, which are a ten-minute *walk* away from each other have very, very different vibes.

Pick a place to live, which (biased) I'd say should be the Triangle and (extra-biased) I'd say should be Durham because we rock like that, yo; but amyth and smonster and Calli would likely disagree on the latter point, because they're also biased. There are a ton of schools around here where you can study English or Education or both, whether it's part-time or full-time or online or whatever. But you're going to (okay, thinking of, but we'll work on you now that you've let it out of the bag) live here, and NC really rewards diving into the cool places and punishes living in the strip-mall-and-sprawl parts.


smonster - Apr 07, 2010 7:40:14 am PDT #15089 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

I would also live in Cary, but it's def. more cookie cutter suburbs.

I would never live in the Containment Area for Retired Yankees. But that's me.


Amy - Apr 07, 2010 7:41:04 am PDT #15090 of 30000
Because books.

NC really rewards diving into the cool places and punishes living in the strip-mall-and-sprawl parts.

This. I want this, so much.


Gudanov - Apr 07, 2010 7:41:36 am PDT #15091 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

(HOLYSMACK! MY CHILD TURNS FIVE NEXT WEEK!)

TCBITW will be eleven this summer. Totally a tween.


Dana - Apr 07, 2010 7:42:30 am PDT #15092 of 30000
I haven't trusted science since I saw the film "Flubber."

TCBITW will be eleven this summer.

SHUT UP.


amyth - Apr 07, 2010 7:44:40 am PDT #15093 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

-th, here, echoing what -ch and smonster and Bev have to say.

I have almost a complete ignorance of Rocky Mount and Greenville. Darth, if he still posted here, grew up in Rocky Mount, IIRC. Went to a conference in Greenville once, and spent most of my free time in the local Target, if that tells you anything. I would def. recommend Raleigh over Greenville.

As an alum of UNC-Chapel Hill, I do tend to be biased in favor of it.

I would put the commute from Chapel Hill-Carrboro to Greensboro at about 45 minutes to an hour. When I lived on the west side of Carrboro, my roommate commuted to UNC-G every day and made it in 45 minutes. But he also got three speeding tickets in a year, so YMliterallyMV.

And yes, we would all definitely play with you if you moved to the area, AND WE COULD USE ANOTHER AMY, YES.


smonster - Apr 07, 2010 7:46:07 am PDT #15094 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

every individual town has a really, really different feel to it. There's really no "I'm an hour away from the town I really want to live in and that's close enough" -- if you're an hour away, it's a completely different life.

Oh, yeah. And we have fun little towns to explore, too, like Hillsborough and Pittsboro.

Even Carrboro and Chapel Hill, which are a ten-minute *walk* away from each other have very, very different vibes.

True true.


Amy - Apr 07, 2010 7:46:39 am PDT #15095 of 30000
Because books.

AMYS UNITE. Or something.

Wait, what's in Greensboro? Also, I guess at least one school would have to take me, right? ::puppy eyes::


Steph L. - Apr 07, 2010 7:48:03 am PDT #15096 of 30000
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

TCBITW will be eleven this summer. Totally a tween.

DOES NOT COMPUTE. SYSTEM FAILURE IMMINENT.


amyth - Apr 07, 2010 7:48:29 am PDT #15097 of 30000
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen

And while Duke may be pricey as a school, living there is less pricey than Chapel Hill/Carrboro in many cases, and the two towns are totally within commuting distance. Most of my friends who own live in Durham, regardless of whether they work/go to school in Durham or Chapel Hill. And Durham is a fun town.