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Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

[NAFDA] Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Vortex - Mar 04, 2010 10:33:26 am PST #12129 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

Gah. I hate this. If it's your own kid, YOU AREN'T "BABYSITTING"!!!

my brother hates this. He has been known to go off if the person is particularly annoying. "NO, I am not babysitting, I AM PARENTING MY CHILD!!!"


brenda m - Mar 04, 2010 10:38:08 am PST #12130 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Now I want a dutch baby SO BAD.

Recipe in Buffista cookbook, just FYI.

Scambled or omelets are the only way I can stand eggs. Everything else is nast.


Nora Deirdre - Mar 04, 2010 10:38:33 am PST #12131 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

I'm always super grateful every time Tom does shit around the house, but it's not 'cause of gender issues, it's because I am a LAZY ASS and feel bad that I'm so lazy. He thanks me too when I get off my ass and do stuff. I think it's a nice thing to do, makes one feel appreciated and noticed for stupid stuff that is honestly a pain in the ass.

However, I have all social responsibility, and if Tom goes and does something social, either prompted or not, I will lavish praise on him about it because he is pretty anxious about that shit.

Oh my gravy, my back is still achin'.


Scrappy - Mar 04, 2010 10:48:00 am PST #12132 of 30000
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

We both thank each other for everyday stuff like dishes or laundry because, I guess, we both know doing that stuff is tedious and it is worth appreciating. I mean, I don't thank J every dang day for making the bed, but I do mention it on a regular basis.


Burrell - Mar 04, 2010 10:51:31 am PST #12133 of 30000
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

I used to love eggs, but now that I am trying to keep on a low cholesterol diet, I usually eat just the whites, and the whites just aren't as good.

I am like Steph's Boy when it comes to housework. Anyone who does it around my house gets a thank you from me.

Today has been... hard. Not sure why. I think I'm just tired.


javachik - Mar 04, 2010 10:52:31 am PST #12134 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'm with Teppy's boy; I thank Steve when he does stuff. I just think it's good to show appreciation.

My ex-housemate was so cute the other day. I was thanking him for taking such care of the dogs while I was in D.C. and he said to stop thanking him - they're his dogs, too. So I told him great, he can chip in for the dog food, treats and dogwalker! He smiled and said, "yeah, you're welcome for taking care of your dogs!"

(I was just giving him shit; I love that he's bonded with Cayenne so much! What a stark contrast to last May when I had to cut my Toronto trip short because she ran away from him!)


Aims - Mar 04, 2010 10:53:47 am PST #12135 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.

Gah. I hate this. If it's your own kid, YOU AREN'T "BABYSITTING"!!!

my brother hates this. He has been known to go off if the person is particularly annoying. "NO, I am not babysitting, I AM PARENTING MY CHILD!!!"

I was *TOTALLY WAITING* for you to come in and post this!!! It's like ita and her "Vernor's is ginger soda".


javachik - Mar 04, 2010 10:55:21 am PST #12136 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yeah, I can't say enough how much disdain I have for terms such as "Mr. Mom" and that shit.


smonster - Mar 04, 2010 10:55:37 am PST #12137 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Is it a stomach *calmer* or if I took some every day would things stay chill in there?

It's a calmer. Don't know how it would work as a preventative.

New bf is apparently something of a neat freak. That makes two in a row for me, oy. I try to be clean and I'm working on being tidy, but I have pretty lax standards. My roomie and I are amazingly well matched on this subject, which is nice. If one of us slacks, the other steps in, and we thank each other.


§ ita § - Mar 04, 2010 10:56:58 am PST #12138 of 30000
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

(it is)