Lorne: Take care of yourself and ah, make sure fluffy is getting enough love. Gunn: Did he have anything? Fred: No. And who's fluffy? Are you fluffy? Gunn: He called me fluffy? Fred: He said make sure…wait. You don't think he was referring to anything of mine that's fluffy, do you? Because that would just be inappropriate.

'Conviction (1)'


Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.  

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Vortex - Mar 02, 2010 5:19:59 am PST #11787 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman

One red flag for me that I realize has been annoying me the more I think about it. It's a staff position. Staff is a bit of the bottom of the ladder. Viewed on as a servant by some at the school. The faculty get sweet things when they start, set up things. Computer choices type of things. Staff. not so much.

O-a, are you willing to teach? If so, ask if they'd be willing to make you a lecturer, which in many places is a staff/faculty hybrid. It may give you a little more to stand on.


Ginger - Mar 02, 2010 5:27:42 am PST #11788 of 30000
"It didn't taste good. It tasted soooo horrible. It tasted like....a vodka martini." - Matilda

Having worked as staff (student publications adviser) at a university, I will say there's a definite sense of second-class citizen that never goes away, even if you're in a nonacademic department. Also, where I worked, you had much worse parking.

ION, it's snooooowing.


Sparky1 - Mar 02, 2010 5:36:08 am PST #11789 of 30000
Librarian Warlord

I've been in the faculty, staff and the hybrid position as a librarian. (Now, I am considered administration, which is basically high-ranking staff, and I'm fine with that - I don't need to go through tenure/peer review or publish or perish at this point in my career, thankyouverymuch.) They all have pros/cons, but it is very much university-dependent.

o-a, how much wiggle room they will have will depend not only on the department, but also on the union contract, etc. You have the most power while you are negotiating. After you take the job, you may have to stay in lockstep (advancement, review, pay, other working conditions) with your colleagues.


Trudy Booth - Mar 02, 2010 5:53:47 am PST #11790 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Hil, your advisor is insane. We should have a count down clock to when you'll never have to deal with him again.


Toddson - Mar 02, 2010 6:24:01 am PST #11791 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Hil, sorry about the pain. FYI, the Brookville in Cleveland Park delivers - don't know if they'd come to your neighborhood, but they usually have nice produce. They're small, so the selection isn't as good as some places, but I've seen the manager going through the store on the phone with someone picking up stuff and putting it in a cart.


DebetEsse - Mar 02, 2010 6:31:18 am PST #11792 of 30000
Woe to the fucking wicked.

Teppy, my dad is an and teaches OT, and uses Felden...however you spell it in class, as well as theraputically.


Nora Deirdre - Mar 02, 2010 6:34:05 am PST #11793 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

my acting teacher, Kristin Linklater, based some of her techniques on Feldenkrais methodology, for whatever that's worth.

Linklater is a big believer in developing the physicality of the acting process.


Trudy Booth - Mar 02, 2010 6:37:19 am PST #11794 of 30000
Greece's financial crisis threatens to take down all of Western civilization - a civilization they themselves founded. A rather tragic irony - which is something they also invented. - Jon Stewart

Oooh. You got to study with Linklater? Sweet.


smonster - Mar 02, 2010 6:38:40 am PST #11795 of 30000
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Steph, I had a few sessions with a Feldenkrais specialist about my hip pain. She could watch me walk, have me lie down, reposition my body gently, and when I got back up my walk was totally different. I couldn't afford to keep seeing her, unfortunately, but I still use some of what she taught me about how I walk.

Hil, I hope today is better for you.


Nora Deirdre - Mar 02, 2010 6:40:55 am PST #11796 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Yeah, she taught at Emerson while I was there- I had her for at least 2 semesters and was under her coaching during our mainstage production of The Birds.

She was AWESOME.