I just got a call from J's husband telling me that I've hurt J's feelings
This right here? If you're old enough to have a husband, you're old enough to tell your friends directly how you feel.
The whole earth may be sucked into Hell, and you want my help 'cause your girlfriend's a big ho?
Buffy ,'Chosen'
Spike's Bitches 45: That sure as hell wasn't in the brochure.
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ChiKat - Nov 19, 2009 4:49:35 am PST #1011 of 30000
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?
Sparky1 - Nov 19, 2009 4:50:26 am PST #1012 of 30000
Librarian Warlord
Aims, you're very nice to do that.
(pause)
I would not have had kind words for that husband. I might not have had nasty words, depending on circumstances, but definitely no kind words.
Aims - Nov 19, 2009 4:51:13 am PST #1013 of 30000
Shit's all sorts of different now.
She didn't have her husband call me. He did that himself. His last words were, "We never had this conversation." J would have never said anything to me, she would have left it alone.
Sparky1 - Nov 19, 2009 4:53:06 am PST #1014 of 30000
Librarian Warlord
His last words were, "We never had this conversation."
Not acceptable. Only acceptable if he was planning a surprise party for her. Not acceptable when he is infantilizing her.
Jessica - Nov 19, 2009 4:53:31 am PST #1015 of 30000
If I want to become a cloud of bats, does each bat need a separate vaccination?
She didn't have her husband call me. He did that himself. His last words were, "We never had this conversation." J would have never said anything to me, she would have left it alone.
Honestly, if this is the case, I don't think you're obligated to respond in any way. It seems like the husband is the one with his panties in a twist.
sj - Nov 19, 2009 4:53:45 am PST #1016 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
That's still kind of pathetic. You nice to be including her. I wouldn't.
Cashmere - Nov 19, 2009 4:55:50 am PST #1017 of 30000
Now tagless for your comfort.
Aims, not enough @@ in the world.
I would love to go to the midnight showing tonight but a)it sold out and 2) I have to leave for the hospital at 5:30 am tomorrow so that's not going to work. Poop. I've been reading Cleolinda's tweets about Sparklemas and I can't wait to see it.
Kathy A - Nov 19, 2009 5:03:49 am PST #1018 of 30000
We're very stretchy. - Connie Neil
A friend of mine asked if I wanted to see it on Sunday, and I actually turned her down. I have noooo desire to see this film, nor the first one. (I did arrange to see her the following Sunday, so she didn't feel like I was rejecting her, just the movie. Also, it's a bit of a pain to schlep down to Evanston for a film.)
WindSparrow - Nov 19, 2009 5:09:25 am PST #1019 of 30000
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.
Cash, ~ma for the hospital going.
Vortex - Nov 19, 2009 5:23:53 am PST #1020 of 30000
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Ugh, Aims that's annoying. I don't put up with that. I would have told the husband that it was none of his fucking business and if J had a problem, she should talk to me directly. And no, that isn't a paraphrase, that's a direct quote.