No. And yes. It's always sudden.

Tara ,'Storyteller'


Delurking 1: Because we don't always check our e-mail.


SailAweigh - Oct 30, 2019 10:25:24 am PDT #3042 of 3094
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

I like this thread. I don't feel like the only one who has a hard time keeping in touch.

Hiya Bridget and Connie! Glad to see your pixels around the place.


Sophia Brooks - Oct 30, 2019 11:27:55 am PDT #3043 of 3094
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Hi everyone, if you are natterers you know my story, but I have had a tough couple of years, culminating in almost being evicted for hoarding. I am working on it.

So, I was diagnosed with diabetes, solved it with radical diet change. My uncle died. My mom lost her sight. My father's family, who I never knew, found me. I got promoted, but no one capable was found to take my old job and I ended up trying to do both with an annoying person that I was "training". My cat died. My mom got her vision back. The theatre is building a new building. The regular work is building two new floors. I need to get a masters and or doctoral degree to advance in my new job. I got a new kitten. I missed an inspection and am almost getting evicted. I am trying to fix that. I have therapy and professionals coming in tomorrow.

I took a leave of absence from theatre to take care of my mental health and keep from being evicted. I am cleaning and in therapy. I am hopeful right now. I am grateful for the Buffistas community who supported me through this so far. I am happy with my therapist. I am looking forward to having something clean when the professionals come tomorrow.

I think I have gotten my work to agree that I need time to train the new person, rather than half ass train them and then expect them to take over and not bother me, which will lessen my stress. I had been told to let it go, but people really weren't getting things like saving on a shared drive or making sure the database matched reality which seems like a normal expectation.

My little kitty Petunia is a joy. She is so cute


Sophia Brooks - Oct 30, 2019 11:27:58 am PDT #3044 of 3094
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Hi everyone, if you are natterers you know my story, but I have had a tough couple of years, culminating in almost being evicted for hoarding. I am working on it.

So, I was diagnosed with diabetes, solved it with radical diet change. My uncle died. My mom lost her sight. My father's family, who I never knew, found me. I got promoted, but no one capable was found to take my old job and I ended up trying to do both with an annoying person that I was "training". My cat died. My mom got her vision back. The theatre is building a new building. The regular work is building two new floors. I need to get a masters and or doctoral degree to advance in my new job. I got a new kitten. I missed an inspection and am almost getting evicted. I am trying to fix that. I have therapy and professionals coming in tomorrow.

I took a leave of absence from theatre to take care of my mental health and keep from being evicted. I am cleaning and in therapy. I am hopeful right now. I am grateful for the Buffistas community who supported me through this so far. I am happy with my therapist. I am looking forward to having something clean when the professionals come tomorrow.

I think I have gotten my work to agree that I need time to train the new person, rather than half ass train them and then expect them to take over and not bother me, which will lessen my stress. I had been told to let it go, but people really weren't getting things like saving on a shared drive or making sure the database matched reality which seems like a normal expectation.

My little kitty Petunia is a joy. She is so cute


aurelia - Oct 31, 2019 8:02:13 pm PDT #3045 of 3094
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Getting just under the wire!

Am I a lurker? I try not to fall too far behind on reading threads, but I don't have a sense of how much or little I post. I probably think responses much more than I post them.

Not much to report in my life. Theatre, cats, reading books, watching tv, and trying to keep my ankles functioning have occupied the bulk of my year.


Java cat - Nov 01, 2019 12:30:41 am PDT #3046 of 3094
Not javachik

Java cat still here.


amyparker - Nov 01, 2019 9:35:04 am PDT #3047 of 3094
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

Hey, folks. Hell of a week.

. . . no, is too much. Lemme sum up.

Jim, Ken and I left Salt Lake City and moved to Washington five years ago (he's in Bellevue, we're on Bainbridge Island). Ken is now 32, graduated from the University of Utah with a degree in anthropology, and seems to be a happy and competent human being. We're both delighted to know him.

I've lived here for three years and while it falls well short of the marketing (because humans), it suits my solarpunk-loving heart.

There was some health stuff earlier this year, which is pretty much resolved; family loss, which is very recent and most definitely not; otherwise not much has changed.

It's good to "see" you all again.


Laura - Nov 01, 2019 9:59:21 am PDT #3048 of 3094
Our wings are not tired.

Hi amyparker!! Your community looks amazing. Good to hear that things mostly seem to be going well. I'm sorry for your loss. Ken is 32! It is normal that mine are grown men, but somehow other Buffista sprog remain children in my mind.

Grateful that you are still here, Java cat!


Laura - Nov 01, 2019 10:00:06 am PDT #3049 of 3094
Our wings are not tired.

I probably think responses much more than I post them.

Same here for sure, aurelia!


sj - Nov 01, 2019 10:06:59 am PDT #3050 of 3094
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Ken is 32!?! Time needs to slow down a bit.


SailAweigh - Nov 01, 2019 12:38:39 pm PDT #3051 of 3094
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Hey other lurkers! Good to read your pixels/font. Aurelia, I feel you. I do the same thing. And I know I haven't posted in a long, long time.

Hi, Java!

amyparker, I don't believe you have a 32 year old. But then, my "kids" are 38 and 39 and I have a hard time believing that at times!