Right, there comes a point where you have to either move on, or just buy yourself a Klingon costume and go with it.

Xander ,'Same Time, Same Place'


Delurking 1: Because we don't always check our e-mail.


Volans - Oct 28, 2016 10:56:03 am PDT #2818 of 3094
move out and draw fire

I'm eligible for Irish citizenship since my grandfather was born there.

Me too! But while living in Greece I was always happier to use the Diplomatic line at passport control, rather than the huge line for Schengen.

This is me: one grandfather came over from Ireland and married a DAR Quaker. One grandfather came over from Germany and married a Choctaw woman. I don't know that it gets more American than that.

But 23andme swears I'm East Asian.


meara - Oct 28, 2016 11:05:23 am PDT #2819 of 3094

I wish I qualified for some other citizenship. All my grandparents were born here (most of their parents were the immigrants, except my mom's father's father, whose family seems to have been in Missouri for a very long time??)


Beverly - Oct 28, 2016 12:13:16 pm PDT #2820 of 3094
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I'd have to do a DNA search, since my adoption was sealed. I love being able to celebrate Cinco de Mayo *and* St. Patrick's Day *and* Bastille Day, though. I mean, I *could* be any of those. Who knows? Wait wait, don't tell me.


NoiseDesign - Oct 28, 2016 12:21:25 pm PDT #2821 of 3094
Our wings are not tired

sealed adoption high five

I should do the DNA thing at some point


esse - Oct 28, 2016 1:07:09 pm PDT #2822 of 3094
S to the A -- using they/them pronouns!

I want to do the DNA thing too, just to see if the family rumors are true and I'm not just a soup of Nothern European whiteness.


billytea - Oct 28, 2016 2:06:07 pm PDT #2823 of 3094
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I have dual citizenship, Australian and British. (My mother was born in London - she was technically a Cockney - while my grandfather was posted there as an air raid warden during WWII.) It's a thing that felt rather more impressive prior to Brexit.


Amy - Oct 28, 2016 3:51:21 pm PDT #2824 of 3094
Because books.

I would love to do the DNA thing at some point. My ancestry is, they tell me, nearly all Scottish, Irish, and British (and a lot of it is traceable since relatives have done the family tree thing), but I'd love to see what the DNA says.

S's dad was first-generation American (his mother came from Ireland and was a pastry chef in New York), but all of my relatives on my dad's side have been here too long (and that's where I'm supposed to be related to Daniel Boone), and my mom's father was first-generation American, but that's too far back to matter.

Honestly, I just want to *travel* out of this country at some point.


erikaj - Oct 28, 2016 4:21:36 pm PDT #2825 of 3094
Always Anti-fascist!

Me too. No, that day in Tijuana so doesn't count.


dcp - Oct 28, 2016 4:53:59 pm PDT #2826 of 3094
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

I've done DNA testing.

Pros:

  • increased confidence that my branch of Plunketts has an ancestor in common with the Plunketts from the area northwest of Dublin, Ireland (but still no idea how far back that connection might be)

  • connected with a branch of family totally unknown to me previously, including a meeting with my maternal grandfather's first cousin (it turns out he lives about 15 miles from me)

  • learned that the current best guess for my paternal haplotype is a most recent common ancestor about 2500 years BCE in northern Spain

Cons:

  • still don't know when or how my branch of Plunketts came from Ireland to North America. (Best guess is still via Guadeloupe or Barbados in the 1600s.)

  • learned some very unpleasant history about my maternal grandfather's parents, and his mother's estrangement from her family


Consuela - Oct 28, 2016 7:15:34 pm PDT #2827 of 3094
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

I don't think I've updated here yet. I'm not a lurker, although I'm basically just in Lit and Natter these days.

I'm a year into my federal gig, which means they'll need a crowbar to get me out. (Or elect Trump and overturn all the federal environmental laws, that'll do it.) I spend much of my free time training my new rescue German Shepherd in agility, baking, and looking after Dad. He's in hospice, but is remarkably spry, and still gets a lot of enjoyment out of life. I have some adorable nieces and nephews, and the family is all pretty healthy.

Life is pretty good, but it feels precariously balanced with Dad's situation, and things could change at any moment.

I am lucky, and I know it.