A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Delurking 1: Because we don't always check our e-mail.


billytea - Oct 03, 2009 6:36:39 am PDT #271 of 3094
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

Dude, WHY do you remember that?!?

Because it was hilarious!

I once attended a meeting where my section manager was trying to inspire us with the tale of Ernest Shackleton, who became icebound for trying to lead an expedition to Antarctica. There follows a stirring tale of leadership and endurance lasting over a year, which culminated in Shackleton piloting a lifeboat to land at South Georgia Island in hurricane force winds, and then a prohibitively difficult island crossing to reach a whaling station that was only replicated by another party nearly 40 years later. It's quite a story.

Anyway, my reply began with the comment, "South Georgia Island is also home to the world's only species of carnivorous duck." Someone else interjected at this point.

"Good God, how do remember this stuff?"
"It's a carnivorous duck, how do you not?"

Ernest Shackleton later died on South Georgia Island of a heart attack, during another expedition. Wikipedia offers the following narrative, which I like to think indicates Shackleton's priorities rather nicely:

In the early hours of the next morning Shackleton summoned the expedition's physician, Alexander Macklin, to his cabin, complaining of back pains and other discomfort. According to Macklin's own account, Macklin told him he had been overdoing things and should try to "lead a more regular life", to which Shackleton answered: "You are always wanting me to give up things, what is it I ought to give up?" "Chiefly alcohol, Boss," replied Macklin. A few moments later, at 2:50 a.m. on 5 January 1922, Shackleton suffered a fatal heart attack.

Good times.

Wasn't it? And I still have the mole rat plush toy I bought there.


Aims - Oct 03, 2009 6:38:26 am PDT #272 of 3094
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I am LOVING this thread!! I am so glad the lurkers are delurking and they are all getting a warm Buffista "One of us! One of us!" welcome!

I'm trying like heck to get MM to log in and update. He's stuffing his face with pahsketti right now.


billytea - Oct 03, 2009 6:40:36 am PDT #273 of 3094
You were a wrong baby who grew up wrong. The wrong kind of wrong. It's better you hear it from a friend.

I'm trying like heck to get MM to log in and update. He's stuffing his face with pahsketti right now.

You realise that my mental image here is indiscriminate with respect to choice of orifice.


Aims - Oct 03, 2009 6:41:56 am PDT #274 of 3094
Shit's all sorts of different now.

I do realise. And would expect nothing less. Well done!


Lee - Oct 03, 2009 7:12:45 am PDT #275 of 3094
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Hi Zar!

(I can not be the only one who really, really hopes that the lurkers thus far will continue to unlurk because they're super-cool and will add so much to the conversation!)

No, you're really not.


Scrappy - Oct 03, 2009 7:18:02 am PDT #276 of 3094
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Count me in an being thrilled to meet our cool lurkers.


Frankenbuddha - Oct 03, 2009 7:18:47 am PDT #277 of 3094
"We are the Goon Squad and we're coming to town...Beep! Beep!" - David Bowie, "Fashion"

What Perkins said.


askye - Oct 03, 2009 7:59:24 am PDT #278 of 3094
Thrive to spite them

(1) Are you guys now married on Second Life? and (2) is there fiancedom happening of which I'm oblivious, or are y'all just thinking about it?

Second Life officially has partnerships rather than marriages but most people treat partnerships equal to marriage. Although some people don't consider you properly married unless you've had a ceremony. But personally we consider ourselves married in the game. I probably should have said he's my Second Life Husband Now Real Boyfriend, but I kind liked the symmetry of Boyfriend in their twice.

As for real life, we're not engaged but we're really sure that's what we want but we're not ready to take that step yet. This upcoming visit will be 10 days and that's the longest we'll have been together in person. He lives 1300 miles away and I won't be able to get up to Vermont until next summer. When he's here we're going to figure some things out including trying to plan when I can move up there, but the economy and job availability will play a part in that.

(I always mentally prounounce it "Slartibartfast".)

I do to!

Welcome Zar!


sumi - Oct 03, 2009 8:44:27 am PDT #279 of 3094
Art Crawl!!!

Cool! Actual former lurkers delurking!

Hello to all the recently delurked! And hello again and good to see you to people who formerly participated but STUFF got in the way.

I'm sumi - short for Sumiko. My real name. Because I was on TT at Salon where the RULES said to use your real name. Clearly, SOME PEOPLE don't follow the rules.

I delurked during the great post-"Fool for Love" rise in Spikeloost.

I live in northern Illinois - and I work at a university. (It's Homecoming today. The rain stayed away for the parade - but I bet it rains during the game. And I'm working ticket sales for the dance tonight. Joy. My own fault - I volunteered.)

I have two cats: a blue tabby named Ivan (short-haired) and a medium-length scruffy haird brown tortoiseshell tabbey named Tanuki.

I think those of us on the b.org who have unique names should form our own club.

The monster of FB games has eaten me so I seem to be spending less time here and more time over there farming, fighting dragons and making millions as a mafioso.

However, I am fairly often in Boxed Set, SPN, spoilers lite, Spike's Bitch and Natter. More reading than posting in Bitches nad Natter. I have visited Gaming and was more regularly in the Premium Cable thread when True Blood was on. I also am often (for me) in Cable Drama and Procedurals. I read Literary and the two fanfic threads and have, in the past year or so, spent more time in real Spoilers than I would have believed.


erikaj - Oct 03, 2009 8:53:33 am PDT #280 of 3094
Always Anti-fascist!

Hi, lurkers. Good to see we're not talking to hear ourselves talk, though we would, obviously.