Well, a gathering is brie, mellow song stylings; shindig, dip, less mellow song stylings, perhaps a large amount of malt beverage, and hootenanny, well, it's chock full of hoot, just a little bit of nanny.

Oz ,'Beneath You'


Delurking 1: Because we don't always check our e-mail.


-t - Oct 06, 2012 10:19:21 am PDT #2141 of 3094
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Many happy returns, Sail! Milk those discounts for all they're worth.


Lee - Oct 06, 2012 10:32:31 am PDT #2142 of 3094
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Happy Birthday Sail!


ehab - Oct 06, 2012 10:36:51 am PDT #2143 of 3094
...all my words have been taken by my work. - Mala

I think this is my third year delurking and sadly I’m losing ground. I feel like the delurkiest! I try to catch up when I can but real life has interfered. I can’t say there’s any thread besides this one I’ve posted in since last year. When I have a spare moment I do try to catch up on Supernatural, Boxed Set, and Natter threads and as is always the case, conversations I have opinions on have long since moved on. I do send mental fist bumps and ~ma thoughts for the Buffistas ups and downs. Since, I’m all delurky, Java cat, my sincerest condolences on your loss. Happy Birthday SailAweigh.

My life is much the same as it was except after eleven years of consulting, I took the plunge into a regular job in corporate America. It was time. I wanted stability, less travel, and reliable health insurance. My new job gives me all that with the bonus of being the place I’ve consulted most. In fact, I moved from a consulting job to a regular job all while sitting in the same place and doing the same thing, with the bonus of paid vacation and crazy things like pension plans. This year did bring more fun travel, Copenhagen & Berlin in June to visit family. It was my first visit to Berlin and wow, it’s an amazing city. I definitely want to go back.

I’m growing more things, tomatoes, squash, volunteer corn, berries, apples and more. It’s been really satisfying to eat the bounty of my own garden. This morning I popped out for an apple off the tree. It’s equally heartbreaking to watch pests steal away some of my bounty. Monkey cat happily guards what he can, failing more than he succeeds.

I wonder if I’ll still be delurking a decade from now? Would that be weird? I think it might be a little weird.


Liese S. - Oct 06, 2012 10:57:58 am PDT #2144 of 3094
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."

That sounds amazing, ehab! And it's totally fine to delurk once a year! I'm glad to hear from you, but you shouldn't feel obligated to post any more than you want to or are able to!


meara - Oct 06, 2012 11:10:12 am PDT #2145 of 3094

Ehab, whereabouts in the country do you live? Just curious. Moving to a permajob sounds exciting, and I'm super jealous of Copenhagen and Berlin!!

I, um, still do the same thing I did last year, but for a different company. I still live the same place, and have the same roommate (and quite enjoying it--will be sad when she moves out in just under a year!). We got a cat (technically hers) who is huge (17.5 pounds) and very needy. I still travel a lot, but mostly to LA these days. ...that's about it exciting in my life.


ehab - Oct 06, 2012 12:20:34 pm PDT #2146 of 3094
...all my words have been taken by my work. - Mala

I live in El Cerrito in the Bay Area.

The term permajob sounds terrifyingly permanent.


SailAweigh - Oct 06, 2012 6:56:46 pm PDT #2147 of 3094
Nana korobi, ya oki. (Fall down seven times, stand up eight.) ~Yuzuru Hanyu/Japanese proverb

Thanks for the b-day wishes, all!

ehab, nice to see your pixels! Don't worry about being lurky, we all go through phases where life allows us to play more and others where it pulls us away. I'm in a bit of an away phase right now, too, but I know I'm always welcome when I come back. It's the Buffista way.


smonster - Oct 07, 2012 6:06:10 pm PDT #2148 of 3094
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Happy birthday, Sail! And I'm glad to hear about the many good things in your life.

ehab, c'mon back whenever. It's all good.


Jesse - Oct 08, 2012 3:48:53 pm PDT #2149 of 3094
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Hi lurkers, delurkers, and nonlurkers!


Fred Pete - Oct 09, 2012 5:39:41 am PDT #2150 of 3094
Ann, that's a ferret.

I post so rarely anymore that I almost feel like a lurker, so my year:

The big news is that Hubs has retired on disability. After much drama (which he'd probably prefer I not go into detail about), the final approvals came in late in the summer.

At the beginning of the year, my closest friend at work became my supervisor. There are awkwardnesses. But overall, I think it's a positive for my career. Not just having a friend in management, but someone who's interested in developing the careers of his subordinates generally.

Still volunteering at the animal shelter on weekends. DCistas interested in adopting a cat or a dog are invited to check us out.