Mal: That's not what I saw. You like to tell me what really happened? Book: I surely would. And maybe someday I will.

'Safe'


Delurking 1: Because we don't always check our e-mail.


Java cat - Oct 03, 2012 2:47:12 pm PDT #2115 of 3094
Not javachik

I think I'll be an early post-er this year, instead of just about the last one like last year.

Plunging in here: My mother died three days ago, in her sleep; she was discovered by the assisted living staff when they checked on her around 3:30 AM, as they do. She'd been in hospice for the last six months, coincident with moving from her independent apt. to assisted living. She'd have been 97 in six weeks. She was one of only three women in the entire Alfred Univ. School of Engineering, graduating with a BS in Glass Technology in 1938. Mostly she raised four children and had a gigantic organic garden, but in between kids, she was a project manager for George Gallup, did research and development on integrated circuits for Western Electric, substitute-taught chemistry, physics, and math in high school, played a wicked game of bridge and duplicate bridge, started the local Farmer's Market, volunteered for Meals on Wheels, and, after my father retired, volunteered in a clinic and school in Cairo while my father worked as an engineer in the ESC program. My three siblings and I are proud of her, we'll miss her, this was a tiny bit sooner than we expected, but we've been prepared for some time.

Working backwards, one of my three cats was eaten by a coyote mid-August. I found her head and one leg. Another cat down the street was taken 10 days later. My remaining two cats are grounded, and I hope to build a cat-friendly, coyote-proof outdoor area before winter rains come.

In June and July, I had a fabulous vacation to OR and WA. I backpacked for a week (41 miles) on the Olympic Peninsula, biked all around Victoria BC, hiked, biked, camped, picked fruit, had yummy IPA (beer) along the Columbia River Gorge, found a fabulous hot spring resort (Breitenbush), hung out with the Kinetic Race folks in Corvallis, as well as visited friends in OR and WA, discovering new places to bike and hike and walk on the way up and down I-5, and forging a lovely & loving new family connection with a niece who'd almost been lost to us via awful divorce when she and her sister were very young.

I was certified as an Emergency Medical Responder at the end of the spring semester (EMT-lite, basically), and am an emergency services worker volunteer in my local community.

I run hot and cold here: I'll read and post in bursts (like now!), mostly in TV: basic and premium cable. I'd love for us to have a network tv thread. I see a lot of B'stas on FB and check here at least every several weeks.

It's been a good year, and a bad year, but one thing is constant: I am so happy to have been able to early-retire two years ago, to spend more time with my mother, have less stress (I was replaced by two full time attorneys and one full time clerk), and enjoy the beautiful town and county that I pretty much only slept in the thirty years I was working across the Bay.

Wishing everyone well, Java cat

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le nubian - Oct 03, 2012 3:05:31 pm PDT #2116 of 3094
"And to be clear, I am the hell. And the high water."

Java,

my condolences but I'm glad you had more time to spend with your mother.


quester - Oct 03, 2012 3:09:13 pm PDT #2117 of 3094
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Oh, Java! I'm so sorry for you loss, but glad you feel comfortable to share with us.


Burrell - Oct 03, 2012 3:39:59 pm PDT #2118 of 3094
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

My condolences Java, but you sound very much at peace with everything. That's such a blessing. And she sounds like an amazing woman.


Zenkitty - Oct 03, 2012 3:46:57 pm PDT #2119 of 3094
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Sympathies on both your losses this year, Java. I'm glad you seem happy, though.


libkitty - Oct 03, 2012 4:07:14 pm PDT #2120 of 3094
Embrace the idea that we are the leaders we've been looking for. Grace Lee Boggs

It's great to see your pixels, Java. I'm so sorry for your losses. You had a great mom, and I'm so glad you got to spend more time with her. It sounds like she had a wonderful life, which doesn't surprise me at all, having met her and knowing you.


Sue - Oct 04, 2012 3:23:22 am PDT #2121 of 3094
hip deep in pie

I'm so sorry for your loss Java.


ChiKat - Oct 04, 2012 3:29:20 am PDT #2122 of 3094
That man was going to shank me. Over an omelette. Two eggs and a slice of government cheese. Is that what my life is worth?

Java, I am so sorry about your mother and your cat. Your mom sounds like she was an amazing woman.


Fred Pete - Oct 04, 2012 3:49:28 am PDT #2123 of 3094
Ann, that's a ferret.

All condolences, Java.


Scrappy - Oct 04, 2012 8:04:58 am PDT #2124 of 3094
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

So very sorry, Java.