I miss game days with megan walker.

I have told my parents that soon after the move I want to start having them over one set night a week for dinner and games. In prep, I am starting to play games with one of the babysitters one night each week.

ChiKat and I paired up for Trivial Pursuit at her NYE party. We kicked ass and were winning by so much that everyone else just cheated to get the game over.

I think part of board game playing is learning to play by rules , and part learning to negotiate rules. There is one kid game out there - the ladybug game - that has the rule to win you have to have the exact number to get to the end. In the rules, it suggests with the youngest kids it might be better to just let them get to the end with out about the exact number.

I'm not particularly competitive. I usually lose at scrabble , because I get distracted by cool words. As Long as I am doing better, I'm cool with it. And it turn out, when it is a game of chance I can have ridiculously bad luck. Which makes me laugh and laugh . So as a baysitter, it was easy to enforce the no crying rule. And I agree, if a game causes tears, stop.

The woman we were playing with (she was new to us and I think we exasperated her sorely) opined that there is no plural to qi, that there is only one life force, one that we all share. WhatEV.

Hahahahahah! Okay, I love this argument.

The SO is super competitive but he's working on it. I am definitely competitive, but I am also super Japanese in that I want everyone to win equally. I would like to win some rounds and then the other person should also win some rounds. I want it to be an even matchup, with a well fought victory enjoyed with decorum.

My mom carefully researched and bought a game that the niece (9) and nephew (5) and fam could play together. Which they did, happily, for day one. Then my brother in law bought a Wii. Which dominated the entire rest of the break, including wailing and gnashing of teeth, and me having to step in and say I needed a break from the game for an evening (after it being on from dawn to dusk for literally days).

Whereupon they immediately had to watch television and try desperately to find a movie. None of which were appropriate for my parents' sensibilities. Sheesh.

Now I realize that they just came back from Africa and are a bit starved for media, but man, I couldn't believe how unable they were to just sit together without external stimuli. I mean, have a conversation, dude.

A Buffista game night could easily end in tears and bloodshed. Or a lot of drunk, laughing people.

It's very hard for me to resist multiple-word plays in Scrabble even when it isn't the best move.

I mean, have a conversation, dude.

mac can only manage about an hour on week-end days without external stimuli.

editted b/c weekdays evenings require constant external stimuli until in bed reading.

Of course now that we have a Wii, there is Mario Kart where Leif tends to start laying down the smack.

Yeah, but I'm not talking about a kiddo here! I'm talking about a grown man! The kids were actually mostly fine, except for the occasional overstimulation freakout.

It's just a personality thing, I think. He's always been like that. He's out of the car before I have my seatbelt unbuckled, because he's just ready to be on to the next thing. It's part of what makes him so good at his work, so able to buckle down to such difficult linguistic tasks, because he can multitask and hyperfocus. It just makes socialization a bit frantic.

A Buffista game night could easily end in tears and bloodshed. Or a lot of drunk, laughing people.

Or both.