Simon: Captain... why did you come back for us? Mal: You're on my crew. Simon: Yeah, but you don't even like me. Why'd you come back? Mal: You're on my crew. Why we still talking about this?

'Safe'


Natter 64: Yes, we still need you  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


P.M. Marc - Dec 30, 2009 7:43:53 pm PST #28271 of 30001
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

Law student Nick Kam has written a paper exploring a hypothetical legal scenario: from a set of conjoined twins, one commits a murder. Since justly punishing one requires unjustly punishing the other, would the guilty party escape punishment?

I used to wonder this all the time in high school! I'm glad to see an actual law student explore the issue!

(My chronic insomnia was worse in high school. I think a good night's sleep for me was 5 hours. Not shockingly, I spent a lot of time staring at the ceiling and thinking about random shit.)


Beverly - Dec 30, 2009 7:48:28 pm PST #28272 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

I just want to be in the ground and rotting. I want my nitrogen to go back into the soil.

Body farm, Hec. Natural decomp, plus medical research!

My parents both donated their bodies the the University med school. then they were cremated after the school was done with them. they are now in a cardboard box in my brothers office. I'm lobbying to have them sent into space. I think they'd like that.

That is awesomely cool! I have a new after-death plan now.

I just want to donate whatever is useable/needed, and then cremate me and be done with it. I also don't want family members to feel obligated to keep my ashes in an urn/coffee can on the mantel/toilet tank. If they want to mix my ashes in with the rosebed mulch, then right on.

This is pretty much me. Maybe especially the mixing into the mulch part.

Me too, until quester brought up the "into space" thing.


Lee - Dec 30, 2009 8:04:58 pm PST #28273 of 30001
The feeling you get when your brain finally lets your heart get in its pants.

Megan Fox

She's a no, right?


§ ita § - Dec 30, 2009 8:09:32 pm PST #28274 of 30001
Well not canonically, no, but this is transformative fiction.

She's a no, right?

We're right on the same page. As long as she keeps making crap movies and lying to the press about being schizophrenic and just generally skanking around...ewww.


Cashmere - Dec 30, 2009 8:30:00 pm PST #28275 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Wait, that's not right...

If it's wrong, I don't want to be right!

The story of Karl Rove's father is awesome.

I think I want to have some kind of service for DH, even though he has no desire for a funeral. I think they're good for closure, regardless whether there is a corpse in attendance or not. I've always had great times at funerals, as weird as that is--but they've mostly been for elderly relatives and the chance to get together with cousins that I like but never see is sort of fun.

I braved the grocery store in spite of crappy roads. Turns out it was the best time to go--the store is nearly empty after 10:30! I came home to find DH watching Away We Go for the 11th time.


Beverly - Dec 30, 2009 8:42:02 pm PST #28276 of 30001
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Memorial services are best. Especially when there's a wake-like air about them. Closure is good, and I can't think of anything better than getting together with other people who knew and thought well of the deceased and telling stories--good and bad--about them. I hate funerals, really. Chances are the person officiating didn't know diddly about the departed, and is just making up platitudes. It seems more dis than respectful.

But maybe that's just me.


Cashmere - Dec 30, 2009 8:56:13 pm PST #28277 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

Chances are the person officiating didn't know diddly about the departed, and is just making up platitudes. It seems more dis than respectful.

Not just you, Bev. My friend Angie sat with the minister the night before her grandmother's funeral and he still botched her service. I've seen some fairly uncomfortable eulogies given by officiants. Honestly, I prefer to hear family members and friends get up and say a few words.


brenda m - Dec 30, 2009 9:11:09 pm PST #28278 of 30001
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I mentioned the funeral home before. It was really unexpected, and special, to know that even those people felt somethihng of her loss. I wouldn't expect that in a funeral home, but for the minister/officiator/whoever - if they didn't know the person, then I just can't even see the point of their involvement.


Cashmere - Dec 30, 2009 9:31:48 pm PST #28279 of 30001
Now tagless for your comfort.

I wonder if I can use my rice steamer for bao. Or if I should pick up a bamboo steamer in the morning.


sarameg - Dec 30, 2009 11:44:46 pm PST #28280 of 30001

Good morning cramps. Fuck you too. And hi, stupid snow.